This will probably sound ridiculous to many, but i need some advice for accomplishing anal. First off, i'm not even very big, prolly average, but i figured i could find some good advice here. Every time my gf and I try, we can only get about half way, and then it starts to hurt too much for her and we have to stop. We have tried several kinds of lube, and it's not like i just slam it in there... it's kind of a slow process. Is it just not possible with some people? Thanks!