Hey yall, first post here, with a question you guys might be able to answer!
A little background: my best friend and I have been on-and-off FWB's for many years (proof that having sex with your best friend doesn't always end in disaster!), except for the past 3 years when she was in a monogamous relationship with another guy. Anyway, about 3 months ago, she broke up with him, and once again my homegirl is in my arms.
Now, we've been throwing around the idea of anal sex. Personally, I love it. I've done it multiple times in the past without any difficulty despite my girth. She loves it (and I love it!) when I eat out her ass and when I finger it.
My friend, however, has a little problem: the only time she had anal sex with this past boyfriend, it felt good WHILE it was happening... but the next day, she found herself in agonizing pain. Turns out he injured her by doing it wrong and she actually had to have surgery.
What we're worried about is that my 6"-round penis will possibly tear her wound back open, even if we go slow and use lots of lube. Her boyfriend was of average size, and everything I've read on the internet about anal sex after anal fissure surgery seems to be geared toward average-sized guys... so that's why I came to you folks.
Do you think this will be a problem? Do you think we should go ahead? Or should we not risk me tearing her up again? My friend really wants to be able to have a good anal experience, and her anus looks so tempting and inviting to me
A little background: my best friend and I have been on-and-off FWB's for many years (proof that having sex with your best friend doesn't always end in disaster!), except for the past 3 years when she was in a monogamous relationship with another guy. Anyway, about 3 months ago, she broke up with him, and once again my homegirl is in my arms.
Now, we've been throwing around the idea of anal sex. Personally, I love it. I've done it multiple times in the past without any difficulty despite my girth. She loves it (and I love it!) when I eat out her ass and when I finger it.
My friend, however, has a little problem: the only time she had anal sex with this past boyfriend, it felt good WHILE it was happening... but the next day, she found herself in agonizing pain. Turns out he injured her by doing it wrong and she actually had to have surgery.
What we're worried about is that my 6"-round penis will possibly tear her wound back open, even if we go slow and use lots of lube. Her boyfriend was of average size, and everything I've read on the internet about anal sex after anal fissure surgery seems to be geared toward average-sized guys... so that's why I came to you folks.
Do you think this will be a problem? Do you think we should go ahead? Or should we not risk me tearing her up again? My friend really wants to be able to have a good anal experience, and her anus looks so tempting and inviting to me