Im having this problem with my girlfriend, I really wanna try anal sex and she doesnt. She is really afraid of the pain. one day she finnally let me try it and i didnt even get the head in b4 she said ouch. i was like wtf so i stopped. so can any one givhe me advice on how i can get her to want to or make it so its not as painful (besides Lubricant) or just any help at all. I dont wanna have to cheat and find another girl to satisfy my sexual needs. so ya please help me! Oh and im 7.5 in long and 6 in around.