I'm very curious as to everyone's feelings regarding this as I saw a couple of posts related to it in another topic. Kimahri wrote: Which leads me to ask, when you're a bttm, who do you think should get to cum first and / or when does sex "end"? Sure, EVERYone should cum so everyone gets the fulfilling orgasm thing, and I'm sure that in a perfect world both guys would cum at the same time...but realistically, what usually happens with you and your partner? If you're the bottom and you happen to cum before your partner do you like to keep going usually or do you just want him off ya (lol)? What if he's not close to cumming? If you're a top, what do you expect of your partner? Do you want him to keep taking it or would you prefer to stop and get off another way? What have your past partners said? And what is the "appropriate" thing to do, anyway?