I just have a couple of questions for those who engage in anal sex: How do you get the cum out of your ass? We've only done it a handful of times and its been years up until a couple of days ago. I totally forgot about how difficult it is to get it all out. I think i have it all out and then the next morning....and afternoon....I really don't want to have to clean myself out afterwards but that might be my only option. Also, have any of you had to start off taking only a few inches because of girth being a problem? My husband is about 6.5 in girth and i can only fit the head and a little of the shaft up until the thickest part. We never get past the thick part because it feels like i'm going to tear. I hope i'm not the only person who has had this problem. I'd like to be able to take more of him and i'm hoping just doing it more will help with that. I'm so well versed on sex topics, but this one is not one we do often enough to know the ropes.