hi all, haven't been to the site in a while. i feel like this subject must have been covered in the past but damned if my searches turn up anything. i'm interested in how larger guys manage to achieve anal penetration, and how their partners (male or female responses welcome; though the p-spot renders us different, an ass is an ass) manage to handle the width/length. my guy is not actually even that interested - every time he's been invited around back, the girl changed her mind REAL fast - and he's terrified of hurting me. i'm terrified of being hurt, too. for the record, i'm dealing with a solid 8" and 6.25-5" around at his widest. and this is not in goddamn internet inches, this is the ass-busting truth.