Anal Sex: When i bottom can't get clean enough

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  1. pdxman

    pdxman New Member

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    I'm a gay man who occasionally will bottom or try to bottom but I'm mostly a top. I have a problem though getting my ass clean for anal sex being a bottom. I mean I clean my ass and get down as far as i can in the hole to clean it out but it seems no matter how hard I try I still manage to have a top(especially a big dicked top) get crap on his cock when he fucks me. Either the crap is there up in the canal or when im getting fucked or it stimulates me to shit. Its just embarrassing when he pulls out and there is shit all over the tip of his rubber and it kinda breaks the mood if he wants to reinsert and fuck me some more. Is this the norm or is there a way I can try to avoid this in the future? Cleaning methods or ways i can get shit up far in my ass out before I bottom?
     
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    I have totally the same problem...Any tips please....?
     
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    ok pay attention
    I am a top too but I like to stay clean in case I want to get fucked or eaten
    I use a hose and I rinse until the water is clear plus I try to eat food that passes through
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    take all the time you need to clean out.
    I usually rinse out every day or every other day
    only take as much water in as you can comfortably hold.
     
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    Use a large enema bag that holds 1-1.5 liters. Once you're passing water and no "chunks", you should be fine. You'll have to figure out how many times to use it, since everybody's bowel movements are different. The idea is to clean out past the rectum and well into the rest of your colon.
     
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    Thanks for the tips. Wow sounds like a lot of effort to get an ass fucking but it makes sense. Maybe I should stick to being a top ..lol
     
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    How long does it stay clean after using enam bags? Should we wait off eating for awhile?
     
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    It's more about what you eat and when you eat.

    It's about knowing your body.

    If you eat stuff that makes you poo "solid" and you know when to eat, you won't have any problem, just when you go to the loo do it all, then don't eat anything till the sex date is over, this way I stayed clean with a black 11" cock pumping my ass for FOUR hours pretty recently (unbelievable).

    This is the best way to be clean and it really works.

    If instead you have eaten stuff that make your poo soft and your digestion is not finished, regardless the length of the cock, expect stuff coming.

    As long as you need to go to the loo once during the intercourse I think it's not a problem, the problem is when the stuff keeps coming all the time.

    Never do an enema, that's absolutely not hygienic and should be done only by a nurse with the proper tools and knowledge and for a very good reason.

    If you do an enema you will go on shitting brown water for hours and that's not really what you want to happen when you're in bed with you horse hung fella.

    Another solution is the anal douche that is not an enema, I recently bought one, it looks like an enema BUT IT'S NOT, you just pass water in your ass, the water just enters and exits immediately and while doing this it cleans up.

    You must sterilize it between each use.

    I strongly suggest not to use the plugs for the shower, it's definitely not hygienic and it's pretty dangerous, I just think to some places where I've been that when you turn the shower you get cold water, then immediately a rush of 100 degrees celsius water, it's up to you if you want to have 1st degree burns in your ass.

    Don't even think to use a douche found in a public place unless you are looking to catch some infection or STD, it looks obvious that you wouldn't do it but people still do it, for instance I've been for a while in Australia and I've discovered in gay saunas now have to provide "disposable" douches, you don't find the fixed one anymore.

    ...and I am really scared that it took a LAW to achieve this, it's just... shocking.

    Be aware that enemas and douches make the skin within your arse more absorbent so if the condom breaks it's more likely than usual that you would get infected i.e. by HIV.

    If you do an enema or an anal douche, and your digestion is not finished yet, and you have eaten something that makes your poo soft, you should expect some stuff coming anyway.

    P.S.: I LOVE tops who get fucked only sometimes, that's really my favourite type of partner if I have to be the top one! especially when they're much much taller than me, broad shoulders, tight hips, masculine, tight ass and big cock!
     
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    If you are fucking ass than its natural to expect a shitty deal. Its not pussy so I don't mind if I get a shit on my dick! I knew what I was getting myself into LOL
     
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    The shower shot is a great contraption, but water can get trapped up past the second sphincter. After a thorough cleansing, and even waiting 2 to four hours before starting the action, if I'm with a well endowed guy, bits can be plunged out when things get rigorous. I've taken a break from bottoming cause can get 100% fool proof clean. I've had tops say they don't mind a little mess, but I do.
     
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    Never really seen it as an issue. I mean, gross but just something you deal with.
     
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    stop eating after 4:00 the day before your expected fuck time, purchase a "fleet enama (any drug store)follow directions,use the night before...do not eat anything the day of,until after the act.end your fast with a smile...this is how porn stars do it. if hes hot enough, it will be worth the it.
     
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    my partner and I want to buy the shower buddy. We follow most of the advice here, but no longer use the Fleet enema, plain warm water is much better.
     
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    One hint: don't get fucked on your back with your legs in the air - that position compresses your rectum, puts the tops cock further up your ass.

    Do doggy, do it face down - works much better. Stop trying to simulate the missionary position.
     
  15. AM_092

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    It doesn't sound like you're cleaning very thoroughly! I do 5 enemas and am always clean (is there a way to make ass-cleaning sound less weird?).

    I do agree with someone who said about making sure you're eating the right foods so that your shit is mostly solid.
     
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    A lot of good ideas listed above. I had the ultimate bad experience regarding this topic. I'm 44, and I had been talking & emailing with a HOT HOT 24 year old guy who was into older men. We chatted for almost 6 months on & off before we finally met up! It was FIREWORKS!! We intensely made out for almost 4 hours before making our way into the bedroom to do the main thing we had both been craving for months. He had no sooner entered me and I could tell there was going to be a problem. !!! He pulled out and the mood was totally killed! I learned my lessson, So now my personal way of avoiding a messy situation is to eat a very light early breakfast if I know I'm getting laid that night. That's just enough food & energy to get me through the day. A full busy day will ensure all is cleaned out and ready for a night of intense passion!
     
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    as has been said, a guy with a long wang may hit the second sphincter and even enter the sigmoid colon. so it's little wonder why shit is a factor in sex with a long dick.

    i think using an enema, and eating sparingly for a day before getting one up there, would do the trick.

    using an enema regularly though can cause constipation, so use it only sparingly.

    other than that, going for a long hard shit, a couple of hours before sex, would help.
     
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    Go to Walmart and get a big container of Metamucil. Take a heaping spoonfull with a full glass of water every night before you go to bed. After dong this for several days you will take a nice big dump in the AM and you will be so clean you will rarely need to wipe your ass more than once. You won't have to worry about a mess if you meet a hot guy and suddenly decide you want to take his cock up your ass!

    There will be no more greasy shits, skid marks, or sitting on the toilet for a half hour trying to push a big turd out either. Since I started taking the stuff I can go in the bathroom, drop my pants, take a dump, and be out of there in about the same amount of time as it takes to piss. LOL

    Also, I think the Orange flavor tastes nasty but the Original is not bad.
     
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    Is no one else disturbed by that?
     
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    beside all the great advices..
    i recommend you buy a dildo so you can practice in the shower and learn when you are clean and when not.
    i dont think it is possible for a gay couple to have sex whenever they want like straights do,
    but the trick is getting to know your self well enough to know when will it go well and when you better stick to oral:)
     
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