Anal Sex: When i bottom can't get clean enough

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i was reading the enema warnings on a website and it says to not use more than once a day becuz it can be harmful... I saw some of you all say you use it up to 5 times to get cleaned off well.. is it not harmful? just asking to know. ive never done any of this and rather ask then find out for myself
 

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i was reading the enema warnings on a website and it says to not use more than once a day becuz it can be harmful... I saw some of you all say you use it up to 5 times to get cleaned off well.. is it not harmful?

I cannot advise you on anal sex, but from a medical standpoint, the idea that enemas (and laxatives, for that matter) can be "harmful" is because the body CAN (not will, but can) become dependent on this type of stimulation for defecation.

Eventually one COULD lose the ability to "go" naturally, because the muscles involved in the evacuation process become weak from disuse. Like any other muscle in the body, the rectal and colon muscles can become weak from not being used. Another case of "Use it or lose it."

Another point to consider is that the bowel absorbs whatever liquid you introduce. So, for your purposes (non medicinal), I would stick with plain water.

I don't know what "too often" would be. I suppose that could vary from person to person. But, as you read, once a day is sufficient. In fact, I think anyone who HAS TO resort to an enema every day to "go" is already in trouble and would have to "retrain" their body to "go" normally.

Five enemas in one day now and then probably wouldn't do any harm. But, five enemas every day would be another story.



 
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Rarely have my partner and I had that problem. I guess it is because of my diet. My partner is quite large and his head is like a plunger in my tight ass, I guess we have just been lucky;)
 

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OMG, this thread is just nasty. Makes me remember why I DONT bottom, EVER. But then again I dont TOP either. Oh well, so much for sex...... But I do have pretty hair.
 

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stop eating after 4:00 the day before your expected fuck time, purchase a "fleet enama (any drug store)follow directions,use the night before...do not eat anything the day of,until after the act.end your fast with a smile...this is how porn stars do it. if hes hot enough, it will be worth the it.

With all the anal porn video, u never see shit come out on a cock. Even on the "amature" type where the guys claim not to have prior experience. Maybe they cut those scenes. But every cock I see in porn comes out squeeky clean.

My experience is the douche type enemas, just before the event (part of a pre-sex shower and foreplay), may result in watery brown liquid all over sheets and towels. I figure that a little water was left, and maybe the clean out should have been an hour or so earlier.

Anyone with actual knowledge how the porn guys do it?
 

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With all the anal porn video, u never see shit come out on a cock. Even on the "amature" type where the guys claim not to have prior experience. Maybe they cut those scenes. But every cock I see in porn comes out squeeky clean.

My experience is the douche type enemas, just before the event (part of a pre-sex shower and foreplay), may result in watery brown liquid all over sheets and towels. I figure that a little water was left, and maybe the clean out should have been an hour or so earlier.

Anyone with actual knowledge how the porn guys do it?
I once did "custom" enema right before anal sex and the guy who fucked me had clean cock after fucking me bareback, as clean as you see in the porn movies.

So my guess is they all doing enema, simple as that.
 

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Fleet enemas ($1.50) from any drugstore work for me. Just before I'm ready to go to the bathroom I use it. And it really produces one big crap. I clean the nozzle and repeat 2 or 3 times with tap water until I'm flushed out-- no little chunks or greasy residue. When I flush out clear water, then I know I'm clean and ready for action.

The problem is timing. This process can take 20-30 minutes-- not including a shower. And if it's part of the "getting ready for a date" ritual then it's fine I guess. I just hate going through that whole enema process on the CHANCE that I MIGHT bottom that night. There have been plenty of times when that didn't happen. Timing also gets in the way of spontaneity, b/c there have been other times when I had to turn down anal sex b/c I wasn't expecting it and hadn't cleaned myself. And that's even worse!

Being in a long-term relationship isn't much easier either. Trying to gage when my partner is "in the mood" and how far we go on a given night is always a gamble.
 

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Fleet enemas ($1.50) from any drugstore work for me. Just before I'm ready to go to the bathroom I use it. And it really produces one big crap. I clean the nozzle and repeat 2 or 3 times with tap water until I'm flushed out-- no little chunks or greasy residue. When I flush out clear water, then I know I'm clean and ready for action.

The problem is timing. This process can take 20-30 minutes-- not including a shower. And if it's part of the "getting ready for a date" ritual then it's fine I guess. I just hate going through that whole enema process on the CHANCE that I MIGHT bottom that night. There have been plenty of times when that didn't happen. Timing also gets in the way of spontaneity, b/c there have been other times when I had to turn down anal sex b/c I wasn't expecting it and hadn't cleaned myself. And that's even worse!

Being in a long-term relationship isn't much easier either. Trying to gage when my partner is "in the mood" and how far we go on a given night is always a gamble.

Your ritual gets at a problem I've witnessed, namely that for a while after a douch type enema a bunch of thin brown watery shit may make its appearance and if that's during sex that happens right after the enemas, the sheets and towels and whatever else are really at risk, to say nothing of the withdrawing dick.

Your approach, flushing til clear, and then leaving for a date, may give time for all that to go away. Just wondering.
 

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OK, pretty much always a top man here, but now and then......:biggrin1:

Shower shot/shower enema attachment (with the flexible metal hose, smooth nozzle and adjustable pressure knob attached to the shower head - you know what I'm talking about?) is the most reliable cleansing that I've found - warm water flushing out the rectum/lower colon repeatedly until clear and clean. No problem in my shower having water just the right temperature - no scalding. I've not had a problem of retaining brown water at all, nor have most of my partners, if we've made sure to sit on the toilet and expel everything we could. Probably wise to start this a little earlier than right before you're pulling off each other's underwear , though! You could always put a bath towel down under you, just in case....saves the sheets or bedcovers!

Other than buying the shower enema attachment, purchase a drug store/chemist's rubber douche bottle with a long nozzle (or even the Fleet brand or store brand enemas which are handy and do well) -- just keep flushing out, as others have said here.

A light meal before the date might help not feeling "bloated" for later sexual pressures <wink> -- but has nothing to do with a clean fuck, really, IMO (It usually takes a lot longer for ingested food to work its way through the digestive tract than that.)

Metamucil fiber powder drunk nightly is great advice -- a good buddy of mine uses it like clockwork to keep the bowels firm and easy to eject. Good fiber-filled diet itself is one of the main aids to helping keep things cleaned out.

Go forth, squeaky clean folks, and have fun!
 

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Considering all the problems associated with anal sex, it would seem more reasonable to have sex some other way.
same as saying "Considering all the problems associated with flying or driving, it would seem more reasonable to walk from place to place."

if we would do only the reasonable things, we'll reach nowhere, in this case no thrill and no pleasure.
 

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Considering all the problems associated with anal sex, it would seem more reasonable to have sex some other way.

I don't know that there are "problems" associated with anal sex as much as there are many people who go about trying to do it without the knowledge of the proper preparation requisite to the act itself.

It's like riding a bike-- once you know what you are doing, there are really few problems.
 

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I have a two-part problem: (a) my first and second sphincters are only about 3 inches apart...this makes it VERY difficult to avoid getting water waaaaaay up there (though it makes me VERY popular, especially with the "big boys") and (b) I can never get all the water out!! Even if I'm VERY patient, if the fucking goes on for more than about 30 minutes, I start to get the "slippery" feeling that tells me that some water is making its way out, and it might not be entirely clear...suggestions??
 

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if you're not fully expelling / emptying your bowel with each movement your diet needs improvement.

one sure fire way of cleansing and fully eliminating is to add significant fiber to your diet. I take one tablespoon of whole psyllium seed stirred in juice every morning, keeps me very clean and "satisfied" (mind you this is NOT a laxative routine, just a healthy, all-around housekeeping - a good daily "scrubbing" if you will)

before any encounter a brief wash with an enema gets everything tidy. i've never had a top pull a dirty cock out of me! :tongue: