anal sex with a large penis

Discussion in 'Sex With a Large Penis' started by pink kitty, May 6, 2006.

  1. pink kitty

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    So, my large man and I want to try anal, but I'm a little hesitant, for obvious reasons , and so is he, because he doesn't want to hurt me. Does anyone here have a little advice for anal sex with a large penis, getting ready for it, tips and tricks for a comfy experience?

    Thanks! :smile:
     
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    Honestly, it has more to do with your limits than his, or preperation...sure the whole lube and fingering thing is valid, but....if you are nervous, or not really 100% into it, then you won't try it enough times to get it down. It just takes practice, and a few times of stopping after just a short bit, getting used to it...thats what me and my partners have tried. Granted, have never had any of my partners that into it, so haven't done it myself, but...thats pretty key.
     
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    Pink Kitty--it's best to search the board for a bit (and use the search feature) to find some of what you seek. Some members won't answer the same question twice (or more) so searching the board is often a good way to find info like what you are asking.
     
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    From the perspective of a buttboy who started very young, eagerness and training are the keys. I was sticking things up my ass since I was 3 or 4 years old, constantly looking to expand my limits. Handling another boy later in childhood was not traumatic.

    You might also want to consider a prescription muscle relaxer and dissolving it in warm water for an enema. I heard that trick from an older friend regarding fisting, and I've used it with a few guys who just couldn't take me otherwise.
     
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    yeah you definitely have to want it and be mentally/physically relaxed. lots of foreplay, lube, etc. and you may want to "break yourself in" with some smaller sex toys. the first few times it hurts, but with practice it feels better and better!
     
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    I don't agree with this...if a person cannot "take" someone due to his size. They need to work themselves up to this. Never ever should you use any kind of "prescription" drugs dissolved in an enema. That is the quickest way for the body to absorb the medication, this can be dangerous. You want to be able to enjoy the experience and not lie there like a rag doll.
    Best advise from an Dildo queen ....just buy some different sized toys and play with them, before you let your Man go for the gold.
    If you have to drug yourself up to have sex , then you don't need to be doing it.
    :tongue:
     
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    try stetching yourself first with either a dildo, vibrator or butt plug also if you can try having a hot shower or bath before hand to get everything relaxed. Lots of foreplay and lots of lube and dont try and take him all the way in straight way because you most probably wont, go slow and take him in a little further each time and eventually you should be able to take all of him in.
     
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    He knows his stuff, have you seen his vids? :eek:
     
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    My fiance is 9.25 inches long and approx 7 inches thick,I'm searching the internet for a dildo or butt plug to stretch myself with before we attempt anything:tongue: I'm still an ass virgin:biggrin1:
     
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    I would agree with this advice - it is surprising just how much a woman can take if she is fully aroused.
     
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    The woman has to be ACHING for a big cock in her ass. She has to be dying for it. Talk dirty to her, like really nasty. Finger her ass and, most importantly, TOSS HER SALAD! Eating ass makes a girl comfortable in that region and relaxed - if she isn't relaxed your cock isn't going to be able to enter, let alone pleasurably for her. Lube is also very important cause an ass doesn't get wet like a pussy. I've never had a girl receive physical pleasure the first time they've done anal, although they said they enjoyed pleasing me, but they've always wanted more. By the fourth time, every girl I've done anally has really gotten pleasure physically from it.
     
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    To add to this you can also try rubbing your clit or using a vibrator while he is penetrating your anus as this can help relax things. This is recommended by pron stars.
     
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    My wife and I tried it once, but she said it hurt and I was way too big for her anally. I suggest you don't do it at all. Someone may get hurt.
     
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    Don't be too sure...:wink:
     
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    OUCH! All I want to do is be able to take my fiance's penis:tongue: That looks too painful:confused:
     
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    All the advice has been great, so basically, as long as you as the woman want to take a cock in your ass, and I'm sure your man wants to give it to you there, you two can make it work. The key is that you want it and are relaxed, more specifically, have your asshole relaxed.

    I love anal sex and I love eating a woman's asshole. I still don't believe you girls shit from it, it's so hot and sexy. Women come to like anal sex really only after a few times, so don't give up if at first it isn't good. Try again and again and again. If it isn't good after the fifth time, you may just not be able to relax enough. I have seen porn where women are fisted in the ass, so the size of your man's cock is inconsequential.

    I remember one one-night-stand I convinced to do anal. She was kind of slutty and I didn't trust fucking her pussy even with a condom, so I suggested anal, she said she'd never done it but agreed. I ate her ass first and I was gentle, but I could tell she wasn't that into it even though she told me to keep going cause her asshole kept gripping my cock like a python. I fit my whole cock in, and it was sweet because, not being relaxed, her ass was soooo tight, but she wasn't getting much pleasure so I came quickly and fingered her to orgasm ( I wasn't eating that pussy, I knew she had been with tons of guys). Not my proudest feat, but proof that the woman needs to want it for mutual pleasure.
     
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    Bigone - try again. You have to try a few times slowly. By the 5th time or so, your wife will want it more than you.

    By the way, how did you and your wife meet? It must have been awkward with you being a soldier with the occupation force no?
     
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    You have to follow this advices!:wink: Be relaxed and receptive, also mentally, and you will discover how easy is to take it inside your ass.
     
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