Anal sex with men vs. anal sex with woman: Help

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I just wanted to know if there is any major difference between anal sex with a woman and anal sex with a man from those who have done it.

I'm pretty much straight and haven't even done anal with a dude, but have done it with women and of course regular sex. So I know what it feels like.

However some dude I've known for a very long time is gay and knows about my size and is pestering the hell out of me for a play lol. Not that I'm considering it, but I was just curious.
 

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[QUOTE]I just wanted to know if there is any major difference between anal sex with a woman and anal sex with a man from those who have done it.
I'd think it was the same. Isn't an ass, just an ass? :confused:

I'm pretty much straight
Pretty much? :rolleyes::confused: Does that mean you have sucked cock or been sucked by a man?
and haven't even done anal with a dude, but have done it with women and of course regular sex. So I know what it feels like.

However some dude I've known for a very long time is gay and knows about my size and is pestering the hell out of me for a play lol. Not that I'm considering it, but I was just curious.[/quote] :rofl: Of course you are considering it!:rolleyes: :duh: If you weren't you wouldn't have started a thread asking this question.
 

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Pretty much? :rolleyes::confused: Does that mean you have sucked cock or been sucked by a man?

:rofl: Of course you are considering it!:rolleyes: :duh: If you weren't you wouldn't have started a thread asking this question.


LMFAO. Shush. I'm NOT considering it, lol. I'm just curious. I'm a very sexually liberated person so I can be curious about different things sexually.

I'm curious about going to the Moon and Mars too, but I'm not going to train out for NASA.

And I know an ass is an ass, but I have to imagine it's gotta to be different in other ways. :tongue:

Oh hell, I knew this thread would be weird the moment I pressed submit

....*searches for a way to delete thread*:biggrin1:
 

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no sounds like a good post to me and would like to more about it myself....(seeing as men an women differ anatomically)..... don't have any real interest with having anal with anyone, but just one of those random questions (although hee hee somewhat perverted) that has popped into my head before and would like answered by someone lol
 

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I just thought of one difference with a woman you don't have to worry about doing a reach around. :tongue: Also if she's on her back you get to play with her tits too. :wink:


LMFAO. Shush. I'm NOT considering it, lol. I'm just curious. I'm a very sexually liberated person so I can be curious about different things sexually.

I'm curious about going to the Moon and Mars too, but I'm not going to train out for NASA.

And I know an ass is an ass, but I have to imagine it's gotta to be different in other ways. :tongue:

Oh hell, I knew this thread would be weird the moment I pressed submit

....*searches for a way to delete thread*:biggrin1:
 
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I am pretty damn tired of all the "I'm gay, but I'm not gay!!!" crap you see on most fora, but particularly here on this forum. That is, saying something that paints you as gay and then later recanting saying "I'm not gay!" or vice versa, saying "I'm not gay, but..."

So fucking what if you're gay?! So fucking what if you are considering having anal sex with another man?! Anyone who doesn't get it yet that one's sexual preference is totally inconsequential, insignificant, irrelevant, unimportant, of piddling pertinence, etc... is a fucking brain-dead, brainwashed, socialized, indoctrinated, waste-of-space, meat-headed, pile of stupid. In my opinion, sexual preference is on par in terms of importance with television show preference, music preference, dessert preference, movie preference etc...

Just have your damn sex people, whatever it is, however it is, as long as it's consensual and you're not knowingly causing the other person any harm. Stop being intolerant, small-minded apes/sheep. Please. So I and others can live their short, god-forsaken loves in relative peace. Stop making others' business your own. Stop making something out of nothing.

HaagenDazs-

If you want to have sex with that guy, do it. If you don't, well... I have a hard time understanding why you would be 'curious' and posing this question to us. Picking up your analogy, if I had no interest in going to the moon or mars, I would never be curious as to what it was like nor spend any amount of time pondering the question. If the real problem, the real reason for your trepidation is that the guy is a bit femme, find a masculine gay guy; they are far far far far more numerous than the biased media would lead you to believe.
 

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HaagenDazs coming from someone who has anally fucked both a man and a woman....I honestly prefer Men for anal sex. It was so much tighter and could take a serious pounding!

by the way your cock is amazing, you should post a link to your pics so non members can view the beauty
 

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I am pretty damn tired of all the "I'm gay, but I'm not gay!!!" crap you see on most fora, but particularly here on this forum. That is, saying something that paints you as gay and then later recanting saying "I'm not gay!" or vice versa, saying "I'm not gay, but..."
Why are you being such a jackass? The guy asked a question. Keep the desecration to yourself.

This is a "Support Group" ain't it? If you want to make a thread about trends in sexuality do it, but don't hijack the guy's thread for your own means.

At any rate, your answer was like going to a "Suicide Help Group" and saying "FUCK! I'M TIRED OF YOU SAYING YOU'RE GOING TO KILL YOURSELF...WHY DON'T YOU GO AHEAD AND DO IT!"?
 

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I am pretty damn tired of all the "I'm gay, but I'm not gay!!!" crap you see on most fora, but particularly here on this forum. That is, saying something that paints you as gay and then later recanting saying "I'm not gay!" or vice versa, saying "I'm not gay, but..."

So fucking what if you're gay?! So fucking what if you are considering having anal sex with another man?! Anyone who doesn't get it yet that one's sexual preference is totally inconsequential, insignificant, irrelevant, unimportant, of piddling pertinence, etc... is a fucking brain-dead, brainwashed, socialized, indoctrinated, waste-of-space, meat-headed, pile of stupid. In my opinion, sexual preference is on par in terms of importance with television show preference, music preference, dessert preference, movie preference etc...

Just have your damn sex people, whatever it is, however it is, as long as it's consensual and you're not knowingly causing the other person any harm. Stop being intolerant, small-minded apes/sheep. Please. So I and others can live their short, god-forsaken loves in relative peace. Stop making others' business your own. Stop making something out of nothing.

HaagenDazs-

If you want to have sex with that guy, do it. If you don't, well... I have a hard time understanding why you would be 'curious' and posing this question to us. Picking up your analogy, if I had no interest in going to the moon or mars, I would never be curious as to what it was like nor spend any amount of time pondering the question. If the real problem, the real reason for your trepidation is that the guy is a bit femme, find a masculine gay guy; they are far far far far more numerous than the biased media would lead you to believe.


Open up.. and be who you are.. is a wonderful albeit naive and "there's no place like home" kind of way to completely derail your career in these modern, open-minded times :(

You're right to promote forward mindedness and acceptance versus intolerance. But one must still be saavy and practical if one intends to be anything other than mediocre as a professional or work outside of the glamor and film industries.

Speak as you do to ordinary people who vote for leaders? and YOU WILL NEVER BE PRESIDENT:) If you intentionally position yourself as "out" to the business world, it's clear that you've already made the choice NOT to strive for the upper limits of success in corporate or religious america. That choice , I feel, is bigger than any penis on this site :)
 

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To address things:
1) The original topic: As a masculine agressive bottom jock (I say this as the sterotype is skinny feeme guyz) , I've found guyz prefer fukein another guy because we can take a good rough pounding. Plus we have a prostate so we get to enjoy it. I get a lot of str8 and marrieds that do this as much as gay guyz.

2) To that assanine post about gay ruining your chances for success outside film and fashion: I make a solid 6 figure salray and prople I work with know I'm gay (but you don't look/act gay!). The younger generations grew up on Will & Grace and don't remeber when Ellen wasn't gay. The attitude you express resides mainly in a group of sexually repressed humans who are miserable about it almost as much as they are miserable about the fact they keep gettin caught crusing public bathrooms or buying meth from their escort.
 

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2) To that assanine post about gay ruining your chances for success outside film and fashion: I make a solid 6 figure salray and prople I work with know I'm gay (but you don't look/act gay!). The younger generations grew up on Will & Grace and don't remeber when Ellen wasn't gay. The attitude you express resides mainly in a group of sexually repressed humans who are miserable about it almost as much as they are miserable about the fact they keep gettin caught crusing public bathrooms or buying meth from their escort.

Well... if you think your six figures is "big bucks"... my point is proven. And those guys sneaking around to avoid getting caught doing what they know shouldn't be disclosed, .... what's your point? It's only assanine if you feel you have nothing to lose. It doesn't matter that you know a few "out" guys who've made great strides.
 

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I think men (bottoms) ENJOY IT MORE!!and you can FUCK-EM AS HARD AS YA WANT!!

and because men enjoy it more, they are more likely to learn little tricks that make it great. It's amazing the things a bottom can do when you're inside them.

That said, I've only had anal with one girl, and it was good. ok, it was great, but she didn't do anything special. not like some of the guys I've topped
 

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Because of men having a prostate gland, they tend to enjoy anal sex much more than women do, as they don't have a prostate gland.
Of course, the more pleasurable that type of sex is for the receiver (bottom) the more enthusiastic the will be during the sex act, thus increasing your pleasure as you fuck away!!
Also dudes tend to physically take the more active sex better.
 

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I am pretty damn tired of all the "I'm gay, but I'm not gay!!!" crap you see on most fora, but particularly here on this forum. That is, saying something that paints you as gay and then later recanting saying "I'm not gay!" or vice versa, saying "I'm not gay, but..."

So fucking what if you're gay?! So fucking what if you are considering having anal sex with another man?! Anyone who doesn't get it yet that one's sexual preference is totally inconsequential, insignificant, irrelevant, unimportant, of piddling pertinence, etc... is a fucking brain-dead, brainwashed, socialized, indoctrinated, waste-of-space, meat-headed, pile of stupid. In my opinion, sexual preference is on par in terms of importance with television show preference, music preference, dessert preference, movie preference etc...

Just have your damn sex people, whatever it is, however it is, as long as it's consensual and you're not knowingly causing the other person any harm. Stop being intolerant, small-minded apes/sheep. Please. So I and others can live their short, god-forsaken loves in relative peace. Stop making others' business your own. Stop making something out of nothing.

HaagenDazs-

If you want to have sex with that guy, do it. If you don't, well... I have a hard time understanding why you would be 'curious' and posing this question to us. Picking up your analogy, if I had no interest in going to the moon or mars, I would never be curious as to what it was like nor spend any amount of time pondering the question. If the real problem, the real reason for your trepidation is that the guy is a bit femme, find a masculine gay guy; they are far far far far more numerous than the biased media would lead you to believe.




Does this mean your gay :rolleyes:
 

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and because men enjoy it more, they are more likely to learn little tricks that make it great. It's amazing the things a bottom can do when you're inside them.

That said, I've only had anal with one girl, and it was good. ok, it was great, but she didn't do anything special. not like some of the guys I've topped


Like yo-yo tricks ?