Anal Sex (women only)

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  1. B_Yeah69

    B_Yeah69 New Member

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    Is anal sex important to you women?
    Is it just an over rated taboo?
    who actually practices anal regularly with their partner/toy?
    Does it feel better than vaginal sex, do you look forward to anal during intercourse or do you just simply do it to make your man happy?
    Do you feel guilty afterward?
     
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    It's not important to me, but experience tells me I'd miss it a little if it were off the menu altogether. I have a sensitive rear entry, I can climax from anal sex alone. While the taboo aspect of it is what draws me to anal porn, and I am known to spontaneously orgasm when I see a very thick penis enter easily into a slippery-looking anus (male or female) it doesn't seem very taboo or anything when it is happening with me.

    I regularly have anal sex with my husband or with a toy when I am alone. We have never used anal toys on me when together, but we may in the future. I don't always look forward to anal, because it takes some prep, and some aftercare, but I really do enjoy it in the moment. I'm a firm believer of staying in the moment as much as possible during sex, so that works out fine.

    I never feel guilty about any sex acts if we both enjoy them.
     
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    i never had it done to me before. my ex thought it was gross to do. but i was always curious as to how it would feel!!!
     
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    I don't have to have it...I don't really fantasize about it. But I'm open to it. When I have done it in the past (handful of times) it has been amazing or a disaster.
     
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    Important? I don't need it. I'm really new to regular good anal sex anyway, so it's not something I've ever expected to have and if we never had it again, I wouldn't feel like my life was missing anything.

    I don't think so. It took me forever to learn how to prepare properly so that anal sex was totally painless, and once we learned how to do that, it began to feel amazing! It's a worthwhile experience.

    I really don't feel like it's taboo, just difficult to achieve enjoyably, especially with a guy who is bigger than average, for me at least.

    There is one advantage. My ass can definitely take a longer penis/dildo/vibrator than my vagina, as long as we prepare properly.

    We're having anal sex more frequently now, but it's rarely more than once every week or two, usually on the weekends. I'm trying to work up to a higher frequency, but unlike vaginal sex, you can't just be totally spontaneous about it, so we end up having more vaginal sex.

    I sometimes pre-prepare with toys ahead of time when we've planned anal sex, which involves masturbating and dilating my bottom so that anal sex with him will feel pleasurable and not hurt, but lately anal sex hasn't been pre-planned, so we start off with foreplay using toys together.

    It feels a lot different to me, but it's also sexually satisfying. I could possibly replace vaginal sex with anal sex if I had to, but anal sex always requires so much preparation that unless there was a good reason, we'll probably always have more vaginal sex. If just two days pass since we've had anal sex, we can't get it to go in again and we have to prepare with toys. It's a lot of work.

    Even though TheBF never pressured me for anal sex or insisted on having it with me, the only reason why I pursued learning how to do it because I know how much TheBF loves it and how much he enjoyed having it with his ex-fuckbuddy who was a anal sex loving size queen and who preferred rough anal sex over any kind of vaginal sex. They weren't romantically involved, but I know that he really enjoyed having sex with her, so I wanted to be able to do that for him, too. TheBF is an ass man and I love how much he appreciates mine. I never expected that I would enjoy it so much when we finally got it perfect.

    Why would I feel guilty? It's my bottom, I can do whatever I want to it. Do people feel guilty?
     
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    thanks for the reply's:smile:
     
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    We tried it and I didn't like it. It didn't make me feel guilty or anything like that. Just hurt a lot.
     
  9. B_Yeah69

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    he must have been a big guy:smile:
     
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    Please share with us how you "prepare properly" for anal sex?:smile:
     
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    Doesn't have to be. A finger can hurt. Mastering anal sex really takes a lot more skill and experience than vaginal sex.

    I'm working on the anal sex post... maybe by tomorrow.
     
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