Is anal sex important to you women?
Important? I don't need it. I'm really new to regular good anal sex anyway, so it's not something I've ever expected to have and if we never had it again, I wouldn't feel like my life was missing anything.
Is it just an over rated taboo?
I don't think so. It took me forever to learn how to prepare properly so that anal sex was totally painless, and once we learned how to do that, it began to feel amazing! It's a worthwhile experience.
I really don't feel like it's taboo, just difficult to achieve enjoyably, especially with a guy who is bigger than average, for me at least.
There is one advantage. My ass can definitely take a longer penis/dildo/vibrator than my vagina, as long as we prepare properly.
who actually practices anal regularly with their partner/toy?
We're having anal sex more frequently now, but it's rarely more than once every week or two, usually on the weekends. I'm trying to work up to a higher frequency, but unlike vaginal sex, you can't just be totally spontaneous about it, so we end up having more vaginal sex.
I sometimes pre-prepare with toys ahead of time when we've planned anal sex, which involves masturbating and dilating my bottom so that anal sex with him will feel pleasurable and not hurt, but lately anal sex hasn't been pre-planned, so we start off with foreplay using toys together.
Does it feel better than vaginal sex, do you look forward to anal during intercourse or do you just simply do it to make your man happy?
It feels a lot different to me, but it's also sexually satisfying. I could possibly replace vaginal sex with anal sex if I had to, but anal sex always requires so much preparation that unless there was a good reason, we'll probably always have more vaginal sex. If just two days pass since we've had anal sex, we can't get it to go in again and we have to prepare with toys. It's a lot of work.
Even though TheBF never pressured me for anal sex or insisted on having it with me, the only reason why I pursued learning how to do it because I know how much TheBF loves it and how much he enjoyed having it with his ex-fuckbuddy who was a anal sex loving size queen and who preferred rough anal sex over any kind of vaginal sex. They weren't romantically involved, but I know that he really enjoyed having sex with her, so I wanted to be able to do that for him, too. TheBF is an ass man and I love how much he appreciates mine. I never expected that I would enjoy it so much when we finally got it perfect.
Do you feel guilty afterward?
Why would I feel guilty? It's my bottom, I can do whatever I want to it. Do people feel guilty?