You cute cute Joyboy...man you are beautiful..
..ok no distractions..
Yes we are 'pressured' but in my own life I make distintion between bad pressure and the convincing lets try it..in a inverionment and with a person that you trust...at least for me as a women most males are bigger and strong than me..i'm just 5.2"...:tongue:
For sure and I said already I'm grateful to my best lovers that 'iniciated' me in the pleasures of sex and for sure at least some of them may be greatful to me too...
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And pressures comes from everywhere around us and is not even just sex...consume consume consume..always a new thing on the making and etc.
And YES, people must stop and try not be people pleasers to have affection/love/whatever in return. People have to learn to jus say NO! Is not good to be doormate and let be used and abused...for someone that have control issues and are mess up one way or another...but for some is a cicle going on in their lives: victms and abusers and abusers and victims...and is a serious situation with consequences to all getting involved by that.
Yes we are 'pressured' but in my own life I make distintion between bad pressure and the convincing lets try it..in a inverionment and with a person that you trust...at least for me as a women most males are bigger and strong than me..i'm just 5.2"...:tongue:
For sure and I said already I'm grateful to my best lovers that 'iniciated' me in the pleasures of sex and for sure at least some of them may be greatful to me too...
And pressures comes from everywhere around us and is not even just sex...consume consume consume..always a new thing on the making and etc.
And YES, people must stop and try not be people pleasers to have affection/love/whatever in return. People have to learn to jus say NO! Is not good to be doormate and let be used and abused...for someone that have control issues and are mess up one way or another...but for some is a cicle going on in their lives: victms and abusers and abusers and victims...and is a serious situation with consequences to all getting involved by that.