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You cute cute Joyboy...man you are beautiful..:cool: ..ok no distractions..

Yes we are 'pressured' but in my own life I make distintion between bad pressure and the convincing lets try it..in a inverionment and with a person that you trust...at least for me as a women most males are bigger and strong than me..i'm just 5.2"...:tongue:

For sure and I said already I'm grateful to my best lovers that 'iniciated' me in the pleasures of sex and for sure at least some of them may be greatful to me too...:rolleyes: :biggrin1:

And pressures comes from everywhere around us and is not even just sex...consume consume consume..always a new thing on the making and etc.

And YES, people must stop and try not be people pleasers to have affection/love/whatever in return. People have to learn to jus say NO! Is not good to be doormate and let be used and abused...for someone that have control issues and are mess up one way or another...but for some is a cicle going on in their lives: victms and abusers and abusers and victims...and is a serious situation with consequences to all getting involved by that.
 

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Lordpendragon said:
It's probably all about levels of compromise in a relationship and definitions of freedom. In your mind, would be my answer, Gone A.


Great! Agreed!

*applause*
 

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Kotchanski said:
(Going back to the start of the thread and the "discussion" that came of it)

I really feel that Stronzo is getting a hard time here and its rather unwarranted (I've not read all his posts in all threads so I'm refering to this one only)

Ok, when I read the post which has been quoted several times, I misunderstood it totally, something I didn't realise until reading his response to one of my own. So he worded it in a way which some didn't "get" and it was taken the wrong way, I don't think that warrants the reaction it got, considering he reworded several times his position on the topic and explained very clearly that his opposition is to the fact that many now expect these acts to be performed by women, and many women feel pressured into doing them or losing their man. He's right too, I've had many a new partner stick it up there without question nor comment before hand.

In short, worded badly and misunderstood yes, but clarified for those that did. I personally, am thankful that he brought this topic up, I love anal sex myself, but I'm getting more than a little tired of late nights conforting female friends when their latest man walks out on them for the simple fact that they were honest enough to say "Im sorry hon, I just don't like it"
Women in relationships often feel forced to have conventional (vaginal) sex when they don't want to, as well as to give blowjobs when they don't want to... certainly men have left relationships with women who did not provide enough of these activities, as well-- should men never leave a relationship when a woman doesn't want to do what the man wants to do sexually? Why is not getting the anal sex that they (men) want somehow not a good enough reason to leave a sexually unfulfilling relationship, but not getting the vaginal or oral sex that they want is a good enough reason?
 

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Anal sex is alright, but depending on the lady -case by case. Some chicks beg you, and you're 'no way I'm going near that!! Big butts or tighter butts, some smell and some don't, so its still case by case.
On the flipside, play with mine all you like, just don't try to jam anything up there. May not dig what you find up mine:rolleyes:, ladies.