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Would love to try anal sex, any suggestions on what is the best position to adopt, to make it easier, and any other tips would be good.

I know lots of lube and don't go for a big cock straight away !!!! or maybe not !!!
 
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Buy a dildo first and get used to using it on yourself and learning how to relax your sphincter.

When you're ready to have sex with someone do a little prep work by using the dildo beforehand, then assume the cowgirl position and gently lower yourself onto his dick. This will give you more control of the situation and make it easier, then after you've ridden him for a while and feel comfortable you can change to missionary or doggy style, etc.
 
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Would love to try anal sex, any suggestions on what is the best position to adopt, to make it easier, and any other tips would be good.

I know lots of lube and don't go for a big cock straight away !!!! or maybe not !!!
That would depend on the Top you are with. Most experienced tops have a specific preference. You would have to roll w/what he prefers.
 
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Would love to try anal sex, any suggestions on what is the best position to adopt, to make it easier, and any other tips would be good.

No one seems to agree on what the best position is , which I take to mean that it's different for all of us. So try a few.

As for other suggestions (apart from using a lot of lube and reapplying repeatedly), I'd say go a lot slower than you think you need to go, take lots of time to breathe, and above all, be sure you trust the person you're with. The onus is on him to be careful and follow your lead. If he starts barging in and making you feel uncomfortable, find someone else.

Also, there are lots of threads on this site with lots of advice, so you might give them a search (if you haven't already).

Good luck!
 
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I found the best way, especially if the guy has a big dink, is to lay on your stomach with your legs spread wide open. Have lots of lube to allow him t insert and penetrate and then as he starts humping you have him ease in and out slowly then eventually he will be all the way in and thrusting and breathing heavily into your ear as he will be so horny with your tight lips being wrapped around his big dink that it will feel just wonderful to him and as your ass muscles relax you too will enjoy it so much the pain seems to disappear and you will have the most romantic love making session you could ever possibly imagine.

The 1st time I did it he had 6 inches and then eventually he ended up with 9 1/2 inches. It was the best sex I ever had..

Then he got married and had kids and we never did it again but we had 5 years of wonderful sex before that happened and I shall always hold the memories close to my heart and always on my mind...
 

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From my experience I like what is called the "folding deck position" ..there maybe another name for it? I find that lying on my back is much more comfortable and the stretch to place my legs onto (or close to) the tops shoulders helps to open up my anal muscle and once the top has gone in it feels good and full. Also the top has more trusting power as he is on both legs and has good room to get his cock fully home. This position sometimes induces me with an anal orgasm or prostate spasms, which certainly adds to the enjoyment. The best part is that we both can see each others face...
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View attachment 40414821 From my experience I like what is called the "folding deck CHAIR position" ..there maybe another name for it? I find that lying on my back is much more comfortable and the stretch to place my legs onto (or close to) the tops shoulders helps to open up my anal muscle and once the top has gone in it feels good and full. Also the top has more trusting power as he is on both legs and has good room to get his cock fully home. This position sometimes induces me with an anal orgasm or prostate spasms, which certainly adds to the enjoyment. The best part is that we both can see each others face...
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Edit: sometimes called the "folding deck chair position"
 
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