Anal Sex?

[D_Kay_Sarah_Sarah]

1 Will my anus become permanently big and loose, like some I have seen in the porn vids? ESPECIALLY if it happens with a large endowed man? No.. what they show isnt a turn on at all and it is only where your muscles have stretched to accomodate him..I will go back as good as new in no time at all..same as the vagina does
2. what if any are the potential harmful effects? Nothing that i know of
3. How does one prepare as far as cleanliness inside as well as out? The best would be a douche..it looks somewhat like a hot water bottle that you fill with warm water and spuirt in yourself..You can buy them at adult shops and and i think chemists and isnt half as aweful as it sounds
4. Is it true that sliding penis directly from butt to pussy can cause infection? Yes, that is true. I always use condoms so before he swaps holes i get him to put on a new one. I guess if no comdon a quick rinse but not sure about that tbh. It is a basic hygine precausion because of the bacteria that lives in the anus
Thank you for any honest and serious replies.:smile:

hope that helped :smile:

 

[SassySpy]

hope that helped :smile:

:tongue: yes, thank you very much Lee that is a great help!! Actually I couldnt even use the vagina as a reference, as I don't thing Ive had enough experience with or perhaps none as big as here, as I always felt who I was with was big- but they always fit in my mouth. Dont think these guys would!! and thank you again!:smile:

 

[Ed69]

The idea never came into my head.Lisa asked for it 7 months into her 2nd pregnancy.9 years later butt luvin is a regular part of what we do,and she loves it!

 

[Bacchusbigboy]

Don't forget to vote. Looks like the sometimes are winning

 

[campbell]

I have had anal with 2 females in the past and it was different but hot at the same time; my wife on the other hand won't even try it and personally I'd like to do it again some day.

 

[wifeofalargeman]

this is something we(me) have only really started to enjoy the last couple of months. before it was painful and I had to be so drunk before I would do it. now after lots of threads read, advice taken, I can say it is one of my favorite things to do.

 

[snoozan]

The idea never came into my head.Lisa asked for it 7 months into her 2nd pregnancy.9 years later butt luvin is a regular part of what we do,and she loves it!

You know, I was really into anal play when I was pregnant too. Much, much more than I ever had been before or am after. I thought I was just crazy. Well, I was crazy, but...

 

[Naturall]

I was thinking about his today and all i could come up with is that anal is still associated with cheap/slutty and no waman wants that stigma.

Also the idea that is going to be rough and painful. I assume its because porn always shows anal as being like that whereas most guys know they have to ease into it and take it slow to begin with. I can say ive never had a guy seriously hurt me doing anal and havent had any bad experiences with it..

Im sure if these women would just try it they would like it..but at least give it a go before they judge and say NO

Lee_M, these answers that you have given are pretty accurate.

Another preconceived notion that holds some women back is the idea that poop comes out of that hole, and sometimes resides just inside. They see anal sex as being disgusting and undesirable because of this. Some women even fear that they might have an accident at some point during an anal sex session, and get just a little bit of poop on the guy, his cock, or have a bit show up around her anus. They do not want to chance it. While cleaning out the rectum with a douche sized bottle will work most of the time, for most people, using an enema bag setup is the most effective. The enema is a bag that is filled with warm water and has a long rubber/plastic small hose that extends down to a douche type plactic tip. The bag is filled with warm water, and held above the person, and the warm water flows down the hose by gravity, so it is easy to accomodate the water. Enemas provide health benefits in that they remove old waste and toxins from the body. Many natural health/alternative health practices include cleansing with an enema. Also, some people find the sensation of the warm water going deep to be a bit pleasureable. That pleasure may come from psychological factors also.

Second, I think that a fear of pain/discomfort factors in. Even if they havn't seen porn, most women have gone exploring with a finger or two in their anus. They realize the tightness, and probably assume that a guy would thrust just a vigourously as during vaginal sex, especially if they have a partner that generally hammers away. These women need to realize that slowly working up to thicker and thicker objects is the way to get around bad pain. Also going very slow and taking lots of time to stretch the anus with fingers helps. Last, a good lube can make a world of difference.

Last, I can see how some may not want to be seen as slutty/cheap. This is probably more true in the case of women in the dating scene than women that are married.

We must also remeber that some women just don't enjoy anal penetration even though they've tried it. So, they've gotten past any stigmas or fear of poop, but they just don't like the feeling. I'm sure that some of these women found it to be painful or felt some discomfort, while some of it just didn't care for the feeling.

I have read many polls and surveys on the Internet regarding anal sex. Most studies of the general population show that about 33% or one third of women enjoy anal sex at least some of the time. Even on a forum filled with very conservative people, I've seen that about 33% is the number. Then, on forums with open-minded poeple like this one, the hipforums, and other sex related forums, the percentages are higher. These forums tend to have people that are more liberal when it comes to sex than the general population is. So, if you see that 80% of women on a sex forum vote in favor of anal sex, don't apply this to women you meet in public. A one out of three statistic is a better expectation. I think that about 50%-60% have tried it, but about 33% like it at least some of the time. In the April 2006 issue of Men's Health, the article "What She Really Wants" gave many poll results of a survey of 6,000 men and women. The survey found that 33% of women desired anal sex, while 66% of men did. These results seem to be rounded to a nice break down of one third to two thirds, but I think that it is fairly accurate.

Other interesting results of the Men's Health article:

watching porn- 73% of women, and 78% of men
threesomes- 25% of women, and 55% of men.

 

[Naturall]

Allright uncut!, I'm ready baby! lets go do it in the bushes in front of Berklee School of Music or in the library at M.I.T. or the usual, my bed
with Mr. Ed!
Yeah Baby!!
Miki

Nice, I think that MFM threesomes, or situations where the husband only watches are very hot. Being watched, or both pleasuring her at the same time, both ways are fun.

 

[Bacchusbigboy]

I had no idea this question would be so interesting

 

[Laura]

Sorry about above!

I've had anal sex a couple of times but my favouite was on my birthday with my current fella.
We had anal sex in a jaccuzzi and it was amazing. The hot water, and champainge, really relaxed my muscles and his penis seemed to enter me much more easily than any other experience iv had.

I would highly recommend anal sex to any woman at least once providing its with someone you know well and trust. At least then you can feel comfortable talking about it if it doesnt feel right to move positions, ask to go slower etc.

But please dont pass it off, give it a try!

 

[B_josiah852]

I have had anal sex with four ladies. Two loved it and said their orgasms was the most intense they ever had. One said she really didn't care for it but would do it for me cause I liked penetration her that way, but would only do it once in awhile. The other wouldn't even let me completely penetrate her before telling me to stop because of the pain. Yes, I was gentle and used plently of lube on each. It is just what some prefer and what some don't want anything to do with. Done correct a little anal play can be fun for all.

 

[Bacchusbigboy]

Thanks Josiah I am definatly going to try annal sex and lanura "meow" right back - in your gallery was that you praticing what you preach?

 

[Bacchusbigboy]

Interesting results

 

[Full_Phil]

I have had anal sex with four ladies. Two loved it and said their orgasms was the most intense they ever had. One said she really didn't care for it but would do it for me cause I liked penetration her that way, but would only do it once in awhile. The other wouldn't even let me completely penetrate her before telling me to stop because of the pain. Yes, I was gentle and used plently of lube on each. It is just what some prefer and what some don't want anything to do with. Done correct a little anal play can be fun for all.

The hottest woman I've ever been with would do anything BUT anal, and that was just fine. Three other women I've been with have been up for it, with one saying her orgasms that way were the best she got, but it's not a deciding factor on whether the sex is great or not for me.

 

[D_Kay_Sarah_Sarah]

Interesting results

I must say i am a little shocked by the results as i was under the impression not that many women enjoy anal. It would be interesting how many women do have anal by their own choice or because a partner is asking them to do it.

 

[SpoiledPrincess]

I think a lot of women are put off anal because their first experience of it is with a guy who's not taking the amount of time needed - you can't rush anal and you can never have too much lube. A woman needs to be really relaxed about anal play and so many women do have ingrained ideas about their bottom being 'dirty'. The orgasms I get from anal are very different, they sort of feel deeper and slower and achier but they're very very intense.