Anal sex

Discussion in 'Sex With a Large Penis' started by D_Takensomme Thistlewhistle, Mar 27, 2008.

  1. D_Takensomme Thistlewhistle

    D_Takensomme Thistlewhistle Account Disabled

    Joined:
    Aug 28, 2007
    Messages:
    38
    Likes Received:
    0
    My wife can take me whole until we get to anal sex. Then it hurts and I can't get all in. Yes I use lube and the finger to get her going. But I think my cock is too large, especially the head, when I want to get in there. Sometimes I get so turned on trying to get in there I blow my load.

    According to my pics, could I be too large for a small anus?
     
  2. sandie305

    sandie305 New Member

    Joined:
    Aug 7, 2007
    Messages:
    156
    Albums:
    1
    Likes Received:
    4
    Gender:
    Female
    Location:
    uk
    the thing you boys don't understand in bum sex is... TAKE IT SLOW!!!!
     
  3. B_lookin4depth

    B_lookin4depth New Member

    Joined:
    Oct 19, 2007
    Messages:
    33
    Likes Received:
    0
    Gender:
    Female
    Location:
    London UK
    hiya

    im no expert but i would have said you were not too big.

    but you do have to go slow and easy because it can hurt like hell when you first start to push.

    krisy:eek:
     
  4. D_Takensomme Thistlewhistle

    D_Takensomme Thistlewhistle Account Disabled

    Joined:
    Aug 28, 2007
    Messages:
    38
    Likes Received:
    0
    He UK babe. I am PADI certified and just got back from the BWI. Where do you dive?
     
  5. Symphonic

    Gold Member

    Joined:
    Mar 12, 2008
    Messages:
    1,735
    Albums:
    1
    Likes Received:
    36
    Gender:
    Male
    Location:
    Minneapolis (MN, US)
    Go, buy her a straop-on, and let her take you in the manner you take her. You'll learn quickly what "slow" means.
     
  6. B_lookin4depth

    B_lookin4depth New Member

    Joined:
    Oct 19, 2007
    Messages:
    33
    Likes Received:
    0
    Gender:
    Female
    Location:
    London UK
    now im back in the UK I dive in portland and Falmouth
     
  7. D_Takensomme Thistlewhistle

    D_Takensomme Thistlewhistle Account Disabled

    Joined:
    Aug 28, 2007
    Messages:
    38
    Likes Received:
    0
    Sweet. Are those good areas for diving? Send me a private message if you want. I've not met another diver in here yet.
     
  8. maestro071

    Verified Gold Member

    Joined:
    Oct 16, 2007
    Messages:
    1,722
    Albums:
    4
    Likes Received:
    504
    Gender:
    Male
    Location:
    In your bed, lol
    Verified:
    Photo
    Well, Yes if it's realy small anus, then you might be too large! But It's more the fear, lol, I think... Girls have fear for the ass, and that's the problem...Many girls often don't even let me to put a finger at beginning, but latter...when thy get used to (those who accept) enjoy very much!But who knows, perhaps your g.f. is realy with tight ass, lol!
     
  9. ~quicksilver~

    ~quicksilver~ New Member

    Joined:
    Sep 13, 2006
    Messages:
    393
    Likes Received:
    2
    Gender:
    Male
    Location:
    U.K.
    A lot of the pain in Anal sex can be pyschological as well as physical. (As a gay man I have experience and trust me, your cock is not too big for anal sex) In simple terms, if you think its going to hurt, it probably will. You will dread the meoment and clench your muscles out of fear. Try having a nice hot bath with your wife, then give her a nice massage so she is really relaxed. Loads of foreplay, lube and patience... Also, try letting her be on top for initial entry than she can control how much/how fast.
     
  10. Cockojohn

    Cockojohn Member

    Joined:
    Dec 4, 2007
    Messages:
    183
    Albums:
    3
    Likes Received:
    5
    Gender:
    Male
    Location:
    Netherlands
    I'm not a fan of anal sex when I'ts painful for the woman maybe lube is the answer I'm never doing anal. I'm a straight sexlover not anal and I think its better for your loving girl to do it vaginal. Maybe its populair in these days to doing anal because you don't getting baby's when penetration anal and you don't have to do it without condom but thats its no good reason. I love the natural way to have pleasuere with a woman and take her vaginal. Thats what are the women vaginal are shape for. Thats my opinion.
     
  11. christina

    christina New Member

    Joined:
    Mar 9, 2008
    Messages:
    221
    Likes Received:
    0
    Gender:
    Female
    no disrespect cocko but i totally dont agree with u. its a matter of trying something different and not doing the same ol boring thing every time but thats just my opinion.

    Quicksilver on the other hand is absolutly right! and if i could make one more recodmendation. and i dont by a rule usually agree with this but since she is ur wife i would suggest haveing a drink or 2 not to get drunk just to help relax this could help as well
     
  12. D_Ivana Dickenside

    D_Ivana Dickenside New Member

    Joined:
    Dec 19, 2007
    Messages:
    4,864
    Likes Received:
    3
    my best piece of advice is just to take your time. be gentle, use lots of lube, and insert a finger in her bum before you proceed to put your cock in her. there shouldn't be any rushing when it comes to doing anal. if that doesn't work, my next piece of advice would be get an anal plug and experiement with that.
     
  13. D_Sue Ellen Brastretcher

    D_Sue Ellen Brastretcher Account Disabled

    Joined:
    Jan 8, 2008
    Messages:
    1,201
    Likes Received:
    1
    I absolutely HATE when a guy tries to stick his finger up my ass. :eek: I however don't mind at all pushing a guy back on the bed, straddling him, lubricating his cock and then putting it in my ass. For me the key is being on top.
     
  14. Cockojohn

    Cockojohn Member

    Joined:
    Dec 4, 2007
    Messages:
    183
    Albums:
    3
    Likes Received:
    5
    Gender:
    Male
    Location:
    Netherlands
    Maybe one day I one day proof the anal way with a lot of lube but the other when straights sex have a problem to you, you have one giant problem when you think its getting boring. Its the pleasure of sex give a man to the woman and the woman to the man straight or anal. It's your chouice.
     
  15. christina

    christina New Member

    Joined:
    Mar 9, 2008
    Messages:
    221
    Likes Received:
    0
    Gender:
    Female
    Cocko why would u jsut wana do the same thing all the time yeah it may still feel good but i like to change it up. What r u just scared that u might like something different or r u just homophobic? r u scared that if u do anal that ud enjoy it? whats ur deal y r u so against it.
     
Draft saved Draft deleted