Anal Stimulation.

Discussion in 'The Healthy Penis' started by bigboy7, Jan 31, 2008.

  1. bigboy7

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    Okay, I'm not too sure how to explain this so bear with me.
    I don't know what exactly to search for, so apologies if there is anything on this topic here already. Please link to those threads if that is the case.

    I have noticed since "fingering" myself, I have lost strength and sensitivity in my penis. I can still get hard, but I can't hold an erection for long and it takes forever to reach climax.

    It is like I need to pleasure myself through my anus everytime now to get off. Simply masterbating my penis doesn't do it for me.

    Does masterbating your anus have anything to do with that? I notice that I have to relax my anus, of course, to loosen it. But the muscles I relax to loosen my anus is the same muscle that is supposed to be tensed to make my erection harder. And if I do tense it, masterbating my penis is more pleasurable.

    Although, if I do tense it, it is alot harder to relax my anus for when I want to go in there.

    Does that make sense? Haha. I need to get some understanding.
     
  2. crescendo69

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    It all makes sense. But try some other stimuli, like nipple play or ball play. We tend to grow in and out of different turn-ons, even into older age.
     
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    Crescendo69 certainly is correct. I enjoy anal stimulation, or postrate message. My spouse lubes up a condom over her finger and works my postrate gland very well. The flow of pre-cum is exciting and a certain warm up/self lube for intense action for both of us. Great thread.
     
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    I am gay and have never liked being a "bottom". I do however like my partner to play and finger me. At times I also enjoy slow sensual prostate massage as long as it is gentle. Yes, a well lubed condom over a finger works well for us.
     
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    It makes perfect sense! :smile::cool:

    You have unwittingly answered a question I have long had about why the bottom in gay porn rarely has an erection while being penetrated. It's usually clear they are enjoying themselves but the soft or semi-erect penis always seems out of place.

    I'm sorry, :redface: I don't have an answer that will help you.
     
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