Okay, I'm not too sure how to explain this so bear with me. I don't know what exactly to search for, so apologies if there is anything on this topic here already. Please link to those threads if that is the case. I have noticed since "fingering" myself, I have lost strength and sensitivity in my penis. I can still get hard, but I can't hold an erection for long and it takes forever to reach climax. It is like I need to pleasure myself through my anus everytime now to get off. Simply masterbating my penis doesn't do it for me. Does masterbating your anus have anything to do with that? I notice that I have to relax my anus, of course, to loosen it. But the muscles I relax to loosen my anus is the same muscle that is supposed to be tensed to make my erection harder. And if I do tense it, masterbating my penis is more pleasurable. Although, if I do tense it, it is alot harder to relax my anus for when I want to go in there. Does that make sense? Haha. I need to get some understanding.