Thanks in advance for anyone who can help out here I've been with a guy for a while, he's very well endowed and has recently told me that his size and girth have increased. He's now 8.2 inches long with girth of 5.6, we've only attempted anal on a couple of occasions before and I had serious problems both with relaxing and with being too tight. There's not been opportunity for actual physical practice as we live extremely far apart but I'm hoping to see him again this summer and I'd really love to be able to surprise him by improving my skills in that area in the meantime. Therefore, I'd really appreciate any tips on how to relax, the best kind of lube and if there are any specific techniques, tools or toys that would help me learn how to accommodate his size. He's got ridiculous stamina as it is so, if possible, I'd like to avoid any lubes that contain desensitizing or numbing agents. Ironically, I'd tried to find a vibe with his measurements and had ordered 2 that matched his previous ones, thankfully they were still on order so I've been able to return them whilst I try to find something that measures up to his increase in penis status but, from looking before, although I can find a select few that meet the size requirements, there's bugger all that matches his shape. Anyway, if anyone here could offer some help or point me in the right direction for advanced tips, I'd be extremely grateful. Thanks!