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hi guys, I know my profile says 100% straight but in recent weeks/months I have been exploring other sexual fantasies, as the title suggests I am an anal virgin, I can get one finger in my arse comfortably but nothing more as I’m too tight, do you have any suggestions for me on how I can get started and try things as painless as possible, cheers.
 
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I’m also maybe looking for someone to share my first experiences with
 
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Find an experienced top who is willing to take it slowly with you. USE LOTS OF LUBE! And then keep adding more lube! You can never use too much lube. I would start small, maybe fingers or a small dildo. Have him work slowly and then add another finger or move to a bigger dildo. Once you get used to the stretching you will be amazed by what you can take. Good luck
 

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Find an experienced top who is willing to take it slowly with you. USE LOTS OF LUBE! And then keep adding more lube! You can never use too much lube. I would start small, maybe fingers or a small dildo. Have him work slowly and then add another finger or move to a bigger dildo. Once you get used to the stretching you will be amazed by what you can take. Good luck

Yeah, everything he said, and I would also add that douching made me a bit more confident and relax better. I would also recommend that when you decide to give it a go with someone, start by you being on top, sitting on it, so you can control the movement. Also, again, there's no such thing as too much lube.
 

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Has anyone suggested a lot of lube?!?

Seriously though, it’s exceedingly important. I’ve been at it for decades and even now bring things to a halt to add more lube.

Buy a dildo or butt plug, or both. Colt makes an anal trainer kit of three butt plugs that are a good range in size. BTW, you can find cheaper brands.

I can’t count the number of enthusiastic virgin bottoms who were unprepared for the real deal and both of us were disappointed.

Practice with a toy, alone or with a partner which is even more fun.

A mature and well seasoned top is very important.
 

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Agree with suggestions of toys of gradually increasing size.

I'd suggest doing your experimenting on your own, including cleaning out before even considering playing with others.
 

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Bonus tips would be to put a condom on any toy you are going to use because most toys are either made of toxic materials or are porous and difficult to sterilize.

Toxic toys can cause inflammation giving play an uncomfortable burning feeling. Use anal specific lubes is best. Eg pjur brand.

Coconut oil works well as it doesn't stain sheets. Oil based lubes are not recommended for condoms and real partners.

Put a large towel down before you play to make cleaning easier, or play in the shower.