I'm a young guy with a pretty sizable member, a fact I've recently been severely reminded of in the lack of sex I'm having. My boyfriend really wants it, but it's painful for both of us every time we try. We can never find the right position for both of us, and it ends up that I go in too fast and it's very painful for him, or I can't get in and my dick bends (which really kills). It's a little like trying to stuff a banana into a gummy lifesaver, basically. The one time I was able to get in, I couldn't even flex a muscle without causing some sort of pain to him, and I was immediately turned off. The few times we have tried since, I get sorta stage fright and I go soft quickly because I can tell he's starting to feel pain. He's decided to try using a vibrator (an amazing one, at that... climax gems are wonderful) to help him explore and find what feels good and what doesn't, but holding the end of a toy is a lot less intimate than what we are looking for. Does anyone have any tips on how we could both enjoy sex?