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I know it sounds crazy, but a girl I know loves anal without lube. It's not like I just shove it in, I put just a little spit on my finger and rub her anus while I fuck her pussy. Then I move my cock up to her asshole (we are in doggy of course) and I just start to pump a little. Slowly her ass relaxes and the head of my cock starts to slide in. I keep up the slow pump and eventually, my whole cock is balls deep up her ass. I let her get used to it and the pump slowly till I can feel her ass open up all of the way and I can fuck her hard and deep. I have meet another girl (about 15 years ago) that liked it this way.

My question is if anyone else likes anal without lube and what it feels like. I've asked and it's the "burn" that gets them going.

I've tried it myself and even though I can open up enough to handle a dildo or cock, I don't find it enjoyable.
 

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I've only done it once with me receiving it. Hurt like a bitch but a part of me liked it a lot. Not sure I'd want to do it again though. Have given it a few times to my bf without lube, I'm thinking about 3 times.
 

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I was with one girl who'd have anal sans-lube about half the time. I don't think it was about enjoying any kind of burning/painful entry. Rather, I'd just have to rim her for 30+ minutes and start working it in very very slowly, so we'd just be naturally lubricating with a lot of spit + precum. I'd often cum and then keep going, plus since I was never circumcised if it's too tight, I can just slide back and forth a bit in my own skin and not need to drag along her as hard.
Like all anal, of course, the important factor is to take your time.
 

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Ouch. Sounds painful. I love watching anal but i'm not into it myself. It looks incredibly hot when the actors do it however! It seems to me that if you want to do it well you need lube (to get deep enough and have it slide w ease). Maybe Shannon is right, the preference is for the slide that spit gives instead of lube. I never did find a lube i really like, i prefer a lil saliva and precum myself for vagina entry when necessary.
 

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Both girls I've done it with required very little spit. The first one I did this with, she was a self reported "anal slut" and actually I made her bleed a few times. I was wearing a non-lubricated condom with her and she was so hot to get ass fucked, she just bent over the bed, reached back and spread her ass cheeks as wide as possible. She was literately shaking with anticipation. I lined up my cock to her hole and pushed. She would have rather had me do it bareback, but I insisted on condoms with her because her HIV test hadn't come back yet. I fucked her ass 90% of the time we were together. Oh, and when I was in her ass, she wanted it as hard and as deep as I could give it.

My current gf likes for me to play with her ass wile we fuck doggy. The 1st time we did it without lube was not planned anal and I didn't have lube handy.

The first time I ass fucked my ex wife was also without lube, but I had been eating her ass and pussy so it was very wet down there.
 

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When I was in college, one of the first real MEN I ever fucked was a big bodybuilder dude who looked tough, but was a total bottom in bed - his thing was getting his hole pounded without lube - not even spit - his hole would naturally just lube itself I guess - the feelign was amazing - you gotta go slow at first, and I'm pretty big/thick (7.5x5.5), but soon I was pounding that big bodybuilder bubble ass for all it was worth. He and I both got off on the extreme friction of it- I think he got of on the whole pleasure/pain of having his ass fucked without lube. He would just grimace/grunt/take it like a man and bark "Fuck me, man, fuck my ass" etc. And I did. Rough & deep til I blew up his hole & him shooting off same time. Funny, we hooked up many times over a year period and he never fucked me. Here was this young, thin college kid fucking the shit out of this big, tough bodybuilder. No one knew about it except us. And it was hotter that way.
 

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I've been enjoying anal for more than 10 years... I've rarely needed lube. There might be grape seed oil if I've been massaged first, but usually the guys cock is well lubricated from my pussy juices.

If I've taken anal without any other penetration first, precum or spit is fine.

I've never bled or been sore as a result of this.

Whoever is receiving anal should be the one to dictate what kind of lubrication is used; in my opinion anyway.
 
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Lube is practical but sometimes it's not comfortable, especially if you push too much of it into your butt, or if the lube is too cold.

I generally do use lube, but I've had a lot of great sex where I get rimmed, fingered or just lubed up with spit. If you take time and have proper foreplay, using spit and getting relaxed should be enough to make it work! I recommend it.
 

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I've only ever fucked two women in the ass.

The first was a curious anal virgin (as was I, I guess) and the only lube we used was her pussy juice. It was a huge turn on that she wanted to try but, shortly after I was all the way in and actually started fucking, she just found it uncomfortable and complained of 'feeling weird' down there for several days. She never wanted to try again which didn't bother me, specially as her freakishly tight but wonderfully well lubed pussy felt way better than her ass had.

The second was much more experienced with anal from an ex but that was ten years earlier. We only did it a few times before she decided I was 'too thick' even though I was smaller than the guy she'd done it with regularly before. I kind of wish we'd tried again with lube as I was starting to get into it...

Every other woman i've fucked, including my current FB has been totally against the idea of letting anything near there, which doesn't bother me at all, I love pussy too much, which probably makes me a little boring
 
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I've had a partner not use lube for anal. He seemed to enjoy it allot
 

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I have only been with guys who are really hung, so lube is absolutely necessary, but so is taking it slow. The problem with the pain is the thought of doing permanent or semi-permanent damage. One of my best "girl" friends went through a tough period with rectal tears. It's all lube and sow-at-first, or it's not for me.

Thanks
 
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I dated a woman that enjoyed anal without lube. If I had been fucking her pussy then she would just work it into her ass. She never said it hurt or burned. There were other times that she wanted lube. ALL other women I have had anal with I have used copious amounts of lube. I assume she is not the norm.
 

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from a health perspective it's just super dumb. Much higher risk of damage to the mucosa in the anus, bleeding, higher risk of STD transmission (due to sores in the inside of the anus)
Well different folks, different strokes.
 

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The other day when I fucked her ass, I had been playing with her ass while I fucked her doggy (which she loves). I put the head of my cock at her asshole and let her rock back and forth on it. The pussy juice was just enough lube to get me in. I got about half way in (the thickest part of my cock) when she had to stop me. We just kind of rocked together for 5 or so minutes and then I just slid all of the way in. When I hit bottom, she had a very strong orgasm and at that point, I think I was too much for her to handle. I had to stay inside without moving till I softened up a bit to come out. Her anus always goes back to "normal" (she doesn't gape like other girls I've had anal with). The only problem with anal that way is I can't go until I orgasm unless I cum quicker than normal for me. For her, anal with lube can go on for as long as I want to go, anal without lube can only go till she orgasms.