ANAL wont work?!

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  1. bigdeal369

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    5 years wont losen my GF up for me! FIVE! anything i can tell her so she doesnt cry the few times she lets me try anal? i wanna go balls deep soo bad!
     
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    She doesn't want to do anal.
     
  3. Principessa

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    Not every woman wants a big dick in her ass! Some don't even enjoy anal stimulation of any sort. :cool: It appears your girlfriend is one of these people. The polite thing to do is stop trying or get a new girlfriend who likes and is comfortable with the idea of anal sex with a big dick.

    NOTE: Just because it happens in a lot of porn doesn't mean you should do it too. Those people get paid good money for that.
     
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    You just can't plunge in like mad mountain dean!Have you tried any other anal play? There is so much more to this kind of sex play. Try a dildo on yourself and you will begin to get the idea. Really!Not joking. If you can't get past the mindset, maybe she can't either.I once taught a str8 girl all about anal and she thanked me 4 ever. I told her what to do and what to expect.Things her boyfriend did not even know. All he knew was how to stick a well lubed dick in a hole,well there is so much more to it.
    I forgot you might want to read my book "anal for dummies"
     
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    Only two options:
    1) She really really hates it and won't ever like it, or
    2) She's not been properly warmed up and has potential.

    But (...hee hee...'butt'), remember the cardinal rule: NO MEANS NO!!! If it hurts, you stop and do something you both like. I agree with gjorg; YOU probably need a bit of training before barreling in, no matter how hot you think you or anal-sex is.

    And have fun no matter what!
     
  6. snoozan

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    Why do some men treat anal like it's going to be some mind-altering singularly incredible must-have sexual act? It's sticking your cock into another hole, hopefully one that is lubed and foreplayed enough to not hurt you while you try to go in. Experimentation is great, but seriously, if your girlfriend isn't into it, you're not really missing out on something spectacular.

    If she doesn't want it, she doesn't want it. If she's into experimenting with it, start slowly, use lots of lube and even more patience. I'd like to reiterate that maybe you should stick a dildo up your ass to see what she's making all the fuss about, and then bitch about it. It's simply not as easy as vaginal sex.

    Also, what the hell are you doing trying to fuck her in the ass when it makes her cry? I mean really, if something is making her cry, is it really all that important to you? How is it that going balls deep is more important to you than the fact that she's traumatized by the whole thing?
     
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    I had a girlfriend who loved my big dick in her ass...a lot. She wanted it as often as in her vagina.
    The diff would be that it's what she wanted. Not what she didn't want.
    She liked me to tie her up and stick my tongue in her asshole too. She'd lay her head on a pillow with her ass stuck in the air and just HOLLER! Oh jeez... I get a big ol stiffie just thinking about it. What a hottie!

    She eventually moved out of town for a job in another city. Dammit!
     
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    Damn skippy, Think of her before yourself. With most ladies yes its true that it is very wrong to have a penis of any size invade their exhaust only port. Time , Trust, Passion,
    . They are they true keys to unlocking sexual peaks that all crave.
     
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    No but i can tell you "give the poor girl a break". 5 years of crying. You think maybe she doesn't want it or just cant take it?
     
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    I agree if she doesn't want to you shouldn't even try. But if she is willing you should try something like Anal Ease. It's a desensitizing gel that helps. The only problem was it desensitized my husbands dick also and it took him forever (or it seemed like it!) to cum. I ended up unfulfilled and had a sore ass:mad: the next day. Maybe if you put it on 30 minutes or so before, it wouldn't do that?

    Having said that I would like to ask, why are guys so into that? Really!!!:confused:
     
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    and it was that good she just had to let you go !!! hahaha
     
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    When guys watch too much porn, they somehow begin to think that women love to have cocks rammed up their asses--funny how that happens. Also--few straight men seem to understand the amount of preparation (cleaning), foreplay, relaxation, and patience that truly goes into having a pleasant experience with anal sex. Balls deep talks a lot of work--porn makes it look FAR easier that it is (in gay and straight porn).

    The comments about respecting her limits go without saying.


    Also--I remember talking to my buddy TBJoe about my neighbor who wanted me to explain all this to him so that he could fuck his wife up the ass.

    TBJoe looked at me quizzically and said, "Why would a man want to fuck a woman in the ass?"

    LMAO.
     
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    Maybe we are a special case but my wife of 32 years still can't take my penis vaginally comfortably. She has been dilating her vagina for over 2 years and she is doing better, but we still haven't had what we would call successful intercourse. One morning she came back to bed and offered me her ass, she had been secretly dilating her ass as well as her vagina, and she found that she can take me all the way in her ass comfortably, most of the time, and we are both still amazed that her ass is more accommodating than her vagina. Anal sex is the only way we can enjoy any type of intercourse.
     
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    Buy one of those clone a willy kits make one and try shoving your own dick up your ass.Then maybe you'll understand why she's crying.
     
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    1st thing, find a dildo the size of your penis and shove it up your ass. See what it feels like and then realize that you can't just "wish" it up there. Once you can take it up your ass without pain, then you can slowly work it up your girlfriend's ass. Once she gets to the point she can take it without pain, then you can try anal. But remember, if she says "STOP!", you'd better stop.
    (try this web site: Pucker Up)
     
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