ok, i might be hijacking this thread, but gotta ask...the door was opened with the thread topic...for those of you who DO have anal, do you just do it without cleaning the anus? do you use enemas to clean out first? If you don't clean it out first, isn't sex that way kind of messy?
I'm just curious. I've never had anal. Wouldn't necessarily mind trying it, but can't imagine achieving orgasm from it.
We have been having anal sex for over a year, my wife never uses an enema, she has had constipation issues since childhood and has taken great pains to regulate her diet, she will use an enema as a last resort if she does get constipated but she does not want to become dependant on them. We hardly ever see any "evidence". We don't use condoms either.
We started having anal sex after years of my wife not being able to accept my girth vaginally, she came up one morning after dilating both orifices and offered me her ass, I couldn't refuse, it was the first successful penetration sex that we had in nearly 30 years. She hasn't had an orgasm from straight anal sex but she uses a vibrator on her clitoris and she can have a stron orgasm, she says it is more like a G-spot orgasm.
It still blows us away that she can take me in her ass, with some preparation, and she still is working on dilating her vagina with the hope of being able to accept my penis.
