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  1. like2ride7

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    I was wondering if there are any ladies that really like anal sex?
    You see it in porn flix all the time ...but I have never encountered a lady that would even consider it...and I am not even big!
    Just wondering if it was just in the movies?:smile:
     
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    It's like anything, some women like it, some don't. I believe a lot of women have been put off it by a bad experience with a guy who wasn't anally experienced. If it's done wrong, by God, it hurts :)
     
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    Hate it, my ex-husband kept trying but couldn't seem to grasp the fact that IT BLOODY HURTS!!!
     
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    I am one of the ones that like it a lot
     
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    I avoided it for YEARS but recently have come to love it. :smile:
     
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    I had a boyfriend that would not stop trying to suggest it. I was repulsed by it and he was large. He kept trying to tell me, you have to work to get used to it and then it's not so bad. I was not interested in it any way. He'd try orally to get me used to it, he'd sneak it in and I never liked it, and I completely shifted my body when he did it. Not to mention, I don't want to get a bacterial infection in my vagina because of it. He wouldn't let it go.

    I cannot say I have tried it, because I have no interest to ever try it. I have a vagina with nerve endings and that works for me. My clitoris is way sensitive and someone that is not overkill with that is a hard find. The same ex-bf tried to tell me that he knew women that loved it. My response to that was, well you may be more compatible with them, because the disparity between what women like is widespread and I'm not interested in it.

    I think porn stars do it becasue they are a paid a huge paycheck and a documentary (BellaDonna) showed she went through a process, fasting and an enema. It just seems like way too much effort to do something. She since graduated to using a bat and that just repulses me more so, cause I think that has more to do with upping the risk to the next depraved act.

    For those reason I never want to.
    I told him this and that he was huge, I don't want to wear a diaper when I'm 50 because I became prolapsed when I couldn't say no. He said I didn't need to worry about that unless I was in to fisting. If that's the big presuading factor, I'll pass.

    You've vaginal rejuvenation surgeries to tighten you back up, but you know the idea of having to surgically tighten anything, just tells me that what you're asking someone else to tolerate is a little on the selfish.

    We don't have a prostate, so I don't know how women claim to love it, but I have not tried, nor do I want to. Sorry, didn't mean to judge any woman here that has tried it and claimed to love it. I'm just wondering HOW you love it, I mean where's the pleasure from it? Do you actually climax from it? Seems like it would just be painful.
     
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    We don't have a prostate but we do have plenty of nerves up there.
     
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    I think it could be pleasureable if the person knew what they were doing. Unfortunately my hubby does not. It hurt's with him.
     
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    Jane: was it something you wanted to try, or something the hubby wanted you to try?
     
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    My girl loves it. That is when we are successful in getting my cock in.
     
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    Anal sex is the only way I can successfully penetrate my wife. She can only take about the first 1/3 of my cock, 2-2.5", vaginally and not quite that much orally, but when she is relaxed she can take all 7" in her ass. She says that when she is relaxed it's "nice" and even sexy. I am pretty sure that she would prefer to be able take all of me vaginally but when she started to dilate her vagina a little over 2 years ago she also secretly started dilating her ass. She hasn't had any problems whatsoever with any of the myths about anal sex.
     
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    It's really very simple... If you can't take the whole dick then use something smaller and over time it will expand to take something bigger then use something bigger and etc. Eventually you can take the whole dick.

    Then the real trick to anal is using alot of lube. Lube is the key. Without it, of course it's going to hurt.
     
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    Very true. Anal is of those things when its good its great but when its bad its really intolerable. I have been very lucky in only once it was bad. And i gave him plenty of time to learn to be gentle before i let him try again :biggrin1:
     
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    I have always thought that being on the small side :redface: and very gentle ...that I would be a natural...so far no takers tho:confused:
     
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    until this christmas, i hated it.
    it had never felt good. it had always hurt.
    plenty of guys had tried over plenty of years.

    then i let my new guy try it...i expected it to hurt. i expected to hate it.
    i was dong the token "i'll try it with him, just so i can say i tried, because i know he loves it"...

    it was great!

    something about the way he does it, the time he takes to make sure i'm prepared, the attention he pays to my reactions...
     
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    I had an ex who was obsessed with the fact her friends were doing anal but was uncomfortable for a week when we finally tried. It was also slightly disappointing for me as her ass wasn't as tight as her (admittedly freakishly tight) pussy. Another ex had been very into anal in the past but after trying a couple of times, proclaimed me "too thick". She's still a friend and told me recently that her new averagely thick boyfriend is up there on a regular basis. Doesn't make me wish for a thinner cock though...
     
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    I enjoy it as long as I can control the rate of penetration.
     
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    I love it.
     
  19. MalakingTiti

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    I bet you do you naughty little minx! :biggrin1:
     
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    My girlfriend loves it; it was her first suggested it (not that I'd not been considering suggesting it). I think people who are against it just need to open their minds a little... It's all good if you're relaxed and up for enjoying yourself. That's all :D

    For me, if a girl isn't into it it generally suggests she's not so open-minded about sex. Not necessarily true of course, but that's the way my personal experience goes. The girls I've known who are up for it are the most open-minded; the girls who wouldn't countenance it are the ones who think sex is some major important thing, possibly 'dirty' too, etc. I know which end up on top.
     
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