I had a boyfriend that would not stop trying to suggest it. I was repulsed by it and he was large. He kept trying to tell me, you have to work to get used to it and then it's not so bad. I was not interested in it any way. He'd try orally to get me used to it, he'd sneak it in and I never liked it, and I completely shifted my body when he did it. Not to mention, I don't want to get a bacterial infection in my vagina because of it. He wouldn't let it go.
I cannot say I have tried it, because I have no interest to ever try it. I have a vagina with nerve endings and that works for me. My clitoris is way sensitive and someone that is not overkill with that is a hard find. The same ex-bf tried to tell me that he knew women that loved it. My response to that was, well you may be more compatible with them, because the disparity between what women like is widespread and I'm not interested in it.
I think porn stars do it becasue they are a paid a huge paycheck and a documentary (BellaDonna) showed she went through a process, fasting and an enema. It just seems like way too much effort to do something. She since graduated to using a bat and that just repulses me more so, cause I think that has more to do with upping the risk to the next depraved act.
For those reason I never want to.
I told him this and that he was huge, I don't want to wear a diaper when I'm 50 because I became prolapsed when I couldn't say no. He said I didn't need to worry about that unless I was in to fisting. If that's the big presuading factor, I'll pass.
You've vaginal rejuvenation surgeries to tighten you back up, but you know the idea of having to surgically tighten anything, just tells me that what you're asking someone else to tolerate is a little on the selfish.
We don't have a prostate, so I don't know how women claim to love it, but I have not tried, nor do I want to. Sorry, didn't mean to judge any woman here that has tried it and claimed to love it. I'm just wondering HOW you love it, I mean where's the pleasure from it? Do you actually climax from it? Seems like it would just be painful.
