Well i might be weird, but i had anal before vaginal because i wanted to remain a virgin... stupid? Anyway, there are horrible experiences, but they are also amazing experiences. I love the idea of it, and for me size has never been a big issue (ha ha)... for me I love it because i can really feel the size of a guy and can actually feel it when a guy cums. I also dont have an orgasm from it often, but when i do, its absolutely amazing.