And another breaks the 1000 post barrier!

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7x6andchg: Dedication, my dear BlissMachine...sheer dedication.

Just checking out what's going on on a daily basis.

So that is the answer to your current posting frenzy.

7x6&C
 
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da_blissmachine: yes, yes it is.

But hey at least I am actually posting stuff somewhat relavent instead of just 150 posts that say

ajglwkhgaoiewhurehgjsewlkjgjfalkewjflijewijfa;ljflkewjoiwefj

or something........ i think only abt 50 posts to go
 
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7x6andchg:
ajglwkhgaoiewhurehgjsewlkjgjfalkewjflijewijfa;ljflkewjoiwefj

I believe NONE of my posts say this. Short, sometimes, perhaps, but certainly not meaningless.

7x6&C
 
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da_blissmachine: I don't think any of my posts say that either
 
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Tender: [quote author=7x6+C link=board=meetgreet;num=1065665315;start=20#22 date=10/12/03 at 18:22:35]

I believe NONE of my posts say this.  Short, sometimes, perhaps, but certainly not meaningless.

7x6&C[/quote]

Paul,
dont worry,
sometimes less is more....

uh, words i mean...

:)
Tender
 
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awellhungboi: [quote author=da_blissmachine link=board=meetgreet;num=1065665315;start=0#19 date=10/12/03 at 18:03:21]ah yes..... 1000 posts... either extreme dedication or extreme lack of a life   :p
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:mad:

That's not a very cool thing to say, Bliss. If you think people who post here are losers, then maybe you should leave. Paul has over a 1000 posts because he has a lot to say and share.
 
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da_blissmachine: sorry I didn't mean it that way..
I HAVE NO LIFE..... posting for hours abt coins....... hehe
 
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awellhungboi: heh, gotcha. Sorry, man, didn't mean to jump down your throat-- ;)
 
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sammygirly: Well bliss I gotta say it (don't I always eventually?) one sentence posts strictly to boost your post count annoy the bejeezus out of me and isn't the way to get recognized as a regular contributor to the board.

Slow down honey - you'll get there eventually, and believe me, there's no prize for being in the top 25. Most of us that high have been here a long while now.

I mean, crimey - Paul was BEHIND me in posts not too long ago and now he's zoomed past 1000. I'm not worried, I'll get there eventually when I find enough topics to add my two cents to.

Patience Grasshoppa.
 
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sammygirly: I'm not suggesting we impose standards on how long or how extensive a post needs to be. One line can be as profound as fifty as was demonstrated by Gramps in the Etc section.

I'm saying posts that are SOLEY for the purpose of upping your post count are slightly annoying - to me.
 
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7x6andchg: I think, to defend myself, that most of my posts are at least germane and try to help or bring a smile to someone's face....

7x6&C
 
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awellhungboi: Your point is well taken, Dee, but I think it's a matter of perspective. What may not seem very 'fruitful' to one person, may be very important to others. Often these posts you're describing (and most of them are here in Meet & Greet, or Etc.) do seem, to my way of thinking, to have a very important purpose: mainly to foster bonding and positive feedback. Don't underestimate how important it can be to have someone write 'LMAO' or a smiley in response to a post, especially the first time it happens. It can make a poster (at least I felt this way the times it's happened to me) feel like, "Hey, I'm okay. They like me. Now I have something really serious to say, so I'll go ahead and say it." And 'something interesting to contribute' is subjective.

We have a very high calibre of content here, all in all, IMHO, and a little bit of lighthearted banter doesn't detract from that. For me I find it profoundly interesting what Paul or Pecker or Rain or Longtimelurker or Nony or you or Sammy or (I could go on and on--not leaving anyone out on purpose--just don't want this to start sounding like the book of Chronicles) . . . has to say, whether it's about sex, the Universe, bad movies, deodorant. That's the thing about friends, about fellowship: it doesn't always have to be profound.

For me the 1000 post thing is an arbitrary act of recogntion. It is an act of positive feedback to valuable members such as Paul or Gigantikok to recognize their continuing contributions to the board, and hopefully a little bit of incentive for others to keep adding, keep posting, and to receive recognition as well. People can choose to give a damn or not about such things, to me it's just a way to foster a feeling of teamwork.

And I have to adhere to APA standards all day at work--I have no desire to have to deal with that in my relaxation hours. :)
 
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da_blissmachine: Silence can bring more wisdom than 10,000 pages of discussion




can, but usually it doesn't
 
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Tender: if thats true, my husband should be wise enough to know hes toast lol
:D
Tender
 
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throb919: [quote author=DeeBlackthorne link=board=meetgreet;num=1065665315;start=20#36 date=10/13/03 at 20:12:31]"Bonding" is a subjective thing.[/quote]
And, Dee, so is "nonsensical gibberish." And "delegitimizing the conversation." So are "fruitful" and "offending" and "idealistic."

[quote author=DeeBlackthorne link=board=meetgreet;num=1065665315;start=20#36 date=10/13/03 at 20:12:31]Don't confuse the "positive" of positive feedback with a good sentiment.[/quote]
Likewise, negative feedback can be confused with simple negativity.
 
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awellhungboi: I can't speak for anyone else, Dee, but I wasn't offended in the slightest.

I was in the process of writing a post in response to yours. I thought a thoughtful post deserved a thoughtful reply . . . guess it's a moot point now, though.

But I was definitely going to quote Goethe--kind of sums the way I feel about dealing with other people. At least what I strive for, rarely attain.

"I have come to the frightening conclusion that I am the decisive element. It is my personal approach that creates the climate. It is my daily mood that makes the weather. I possess tremendous power to make life miserable or joyous. I can be a tool of torture or an instrument of inspiration, I can humiliate or humor, hurt or heal. In all situations, it is my response that decides whether a crisis is escalated or de-escalated, and a person is humanized or de-humanized. If we treat people as they are, we make them worse. If we treat people as they ought to be, we help them become what they are capable of becoming."

You know your thoughts and opinions are always welcome here, Dee.
 
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throb919: [quote author=DeeBlackthorne link=board=meetgreet;num=1065665315;start=20#38 date=10/13/03 at 21:07:56]Since I'm obviously offending more people than intended, I'll just keep the opinion to myself next time.[/quote]
I was neither offended nor did I mean to offend. C'mon, Dee--you're not a take-your-toys-and-go-home kind-of guy.