...and another new girl.

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  1. ness

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    Hi everyone!

    I'm Vanessa. I found this place through a Google search - my boyfriend & I have been having some issues. He's not enormous (about 8" long, 6" around - I feel for the girls who say they have a 12"er to deal with!), but not small, and his size has been causing a bunch of discomfort when we try to have sex. My obgyn gave me the amazing advice of "go the porn store, buy a big dildo, stretch", so I'm hoping to find another hint or two that will help us.
     
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    Welcome Ness - I am sure we can help you with your little problem

    Enjoy LPSG
     
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    Welcome Ness, i have a post where i put it all out there that my husband and i have figured out. He's 7.5 by 7. My old gynecologist gave me the same advice, its just not that simple. I cant stretch myself all by myself.

    Below is the link to my post...i hope it helps a little! We've had nine years to get a bag of tricks going...

    http://www.lpsg.org/70198-help.html#post1140375

    RED
     
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    Welcome to the group.
     
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    thanks guys!

    Red, that was a great post. We've tried the "just-do-it" thing, but it still hurts just as badly as the first day - even after a week. I do like the vagisil tip though, I'll give that a shot tomorrow!
     
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    it's interesting how the file name of these photos follow the same odd naming conventions that MySpace photos do when you download them from someone else's pics. why would you download your own pics from MySpace to your computer and post them instead of post them directly from your computer?
     
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    Facebook, actually. I use it to store all my pics. I used to use PhotoBucket but FB is so much easier.
     
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    I know its hard to think about sticking with it while its very raw. I have the tightest vagina known to man and a girthy husband, after all these years i finally made myself push past that until i broke in. I also had a semen allergy that irritated my vagina, so we quit having him cum on the inside, that helped temporarily but we enjoy that so much that to give it up was so not easy. I did some research on semen allergies and the only want to get immune is to get a lot of exposure to it strangely. That can make these symptoms much worse for a while.

    Stick with it until you get a break through, i know its very hard to cope with the pain try the vagisil and see if it helps prior, during and after just enough to keep you in the routine until things break through for you both.
     
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    Your OB-GYN's medical advice was "go to the porn store and buy a big dildo"?

    ...really now?
     
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    yeah, it hurts quite a bit. He's also curved upward a little, and for some reason it just kills me. I've never heard of a semen allergy - then again, I've never had anybody cum directly in me. What exactly does that do to you?
     
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    Curved upward should be good for gspot stim. Semen allergy causes a painful raw swelling reaction where you just about close up after exposure to it vaginally. I still have an oral reaction where it makes my mouth numb.
     
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    Well, in so many words. She told me that I would eventually be able to stretch myself enough that my vag would accept him without nearly dying. I've heard that's actually pretty common advice.
     
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    May I just add that you are HOT!:smile: Have any more pics you wouldlike topoast PLEASE feel free to do so! My complements to your parents. OUTSTANDING!!:biggrin1::biggrin1::biggrin1::eek:
     
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    Its a like a Fish wagon at a beaver camp. A missing can of Tuna.
     
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    Welcome ness!! Nice to have you here..!! Hope you'll find your answers in here..!! Lot of stuff about the topic in here! ;-)
     
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    Sit on it and only take as much as you want. And if he misbehaves and insists on thrusting strap him down!
     
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    what possitions have you experimented with
    and is it the thickness or the length that is the problem
    more information would be good
     
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    Agreed. My spider-sense is tingling...
     
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    you know, I try not to hit on married women but you make it REALLY hard
     
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