Hi everyone! I'm Vanessa. I found this place through a Google search - my boyfriend & I have been having some issues. He's not enormous (about 8" long, 6" around - I feel for the girls who say they have a 12"er to deal with!), but not small, and his size has been causing a bunch of discomfort when we try to have sex. My obgyn gave me the amazing advice of "go the porn store, buy a big dildo, stretch", so I'm hoping to find another hint or two that will help us.