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Hello ladies of LPSG. I’m finding myself in something of an odd situation and was hoping I could get some advice/perspective on.
I’ve known Alice for about 6 years now. We met as coworkers at a coffee shop and quickly became nerd friends (video games, books, dr. Who, etc). We were both in relationships at the time so we kept our flirting as innocent as possible, but through conversations it turned out we’re both into BDSM. Alice is actually the first real-world person I ever admitted being submissive to. She was interested, but as neither of us was free to act, it mostly became an in joke, with me responding “yes Miss” to her “commands” at work.
Fast forward a few years and we’re both currently single, but she has moved down to Boston (about 3 hours away). We’ve kept in touch and hung out a few times, but still nothing serious. About a month ago she asked me to buy her a vibrator, as she doesn’t own a good one. I started doing research and we had a few back and forths on the subject. We’d landed on a much nicer one (funfactory for anyone curious), but that was going to take me a minute to save up for. This last weekend she said she was feeling needy, so I popped on amazon and bought her two cheapys: a long bullet, and a short wand. She was excited that they’d be coming in and told me to expect some “proof of receipt *wink wink*”.
The package arrived Sunday. I’d told her it should be there but she waited all day to check. After that I waited. And waited. And waited. She does have a 7 year old son, so I knew it might be a little bit before she could actually put them to use. She’d said she would give them a test run Sunday night/Monday day. I’ve been hearing crickets. I’ve tried to engage her in conversation, only to be brushed off. I’m trying not to be a gross, over-expectant piggy, but....I can’t help but feel a little betrayed. I’m not asking for videos of the toys in action, but a simple “good boy!” wouldn’t be out of place. She hasn’t even actually said “thank you” yet. I know we have a power dynamic that makes big shows on her part not necessary, but I’m still just hurt. More and more I’m feeling like it’s time to just give up on Alice and stop pining for a woman who appears to not really care about me much/at all. I’m not sure how to proceed or even if my feelings are valid, or if I've misread things and should just not think about it too much. Any thoughts/questions/discussion would be helpful, I’m kinda lost.
(Thanks for reading, sorry if the formatting is a little wonky, I’m writing this on mobile)
I’ve known Alice for about 6 years now. We met as coworkers at a coffee shop and quickly became nerd friends (video games, books, dr. Who, etc). We were both in relationships at the time so we kept our flirting as innocent as possible, but through conversations it turned out we’re both into BDSM. Alice is actually the first real-world person I ever admitted being submissive to. She was interested, but as neither of us was free to act, it mostly became an in joke, with me responding “yes Miss” to her “commands” at work.
Fast forward a few years and we’re both currently single, but she has moved down to Boston (about 3 hours away). We’ve kept in touch and hung out a few times, but still nothing serious. About a month ago she asked me to buy her a vibrator, as she doesn’t own a good one. I started doing research and we had a few back and forths on the subject. We’d landed on a much nicer one (funfactory for anyone curious), but that was going to take me a minute to save up for. This last weekend she said she was feeling needy, so I popped on amazon and bought her two cheapys: a long bullet, and a short wand. She was excited that they’d be coming in and told me to expect some “proof of receipt *wink wink*”.
The package arrived Sunday. I’d told her it should be there but she waited all day to check. After that I waited. And waited. And waited. She does have a 7 year old son, so I knew it might be a little bit before she could actually put them to use. She’d said she would give them a test run Sunday night/Monday day. I’ve been hearing crickets. I’ve tried to engage her in conversation, only to be brushed off. I’m trying not to be a gross, over-expectant piggy, but....I can’t help but feel a little betrayed. I’m not asking for videos of the toys in action, but a simple “good boy!” wouldn’t be out of place. She hasn’t even actually said “thank you” yet. I know we have a power dynamic that makes big shows on her part not necessary, but I’m still just hurt. More and more I’m feeling like it’s time to just give up on Alice and stop pining for a woman who appears to not really care about me much/at all. I’m not sure how to proceed or even if my feelings are valid, or if I've misread things and should just not think about it too much. Any thoughts/questions/discussion would be helpful, I’m kinda lost.
(Thanks for reading, sorry if the formatting is a little wonky, I’m writing this on mobile)