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Guys probably expect that because you are at a big cock site, you're interested in seeing people's big cocks. it's ignorant but it makes some sense.
 
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I get random pms all the time, mostly from guys, even though I've designated myself 99% straight. I don't see any sense getting annoyed by this. Take it as a compliment, forget about it and/or move on. Ignore the really stupid ones. Send a simple "thank you" to the ones that seem sincere. Or put something in your signature asking random people not to pm you if it really bothers you that much.
 

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I get random pms all the time, mostly from guys, even though I've designated myself 99% straight. I don't see any sense getting annoyed by this. Take it as a compliment, forget about it and/or move on. Ignore the really stupid ones. Send a simple "thank you" to the ones that seem sincere. Or put something in your signature asking random people not to pm you if it really bothers you that much.

I'm 99% straight. I haven't gotten any pms from guys showing me their cocks. I guess people don't find Hans moleman attractive:frown1:
 

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I get random pms all the time, mostly from guys, even though I've designated myself 99% straight. I don't see any sense getting annoyed by this. Take it as a compliment, forget about it and/or move on. Ignore the really stupid ones. Send a simple "thank you" to the ones that seem sincere. Or put something in your signature asking random people not to pm you if it really bothers you that much.

I can't speak for anyone else but I think for me it's not about the inconvenience of getting the PMs. It's really not that big a deal to just delete the ones I don't want. I think what occasionally gets me peeved is the idea that these guys are so clueless that they actually think women want their unsolicited penis ads. Do you guys actually think you're going to get responses like "oh yeah, that's what I'm looking for baby, lemme see it." I suppose maybe some do, but I'd imagine they are very, very, very few.
 

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No one's sent me pics,
but a few guys have asked me
to send pics of mine.

Guess I can't complain.
My sig says "nine by seven."
What should I expect?
 

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Tiff86,

Quite frankly, you sound pretty pathetic (and no, I've never PM'd her). This post is a classic, "Woe is me...I'm too popular."

Jesus Christ. If people can't see how ridiculous it is for a female member of the LARGE PENIS SUPPORT GROUP to complain about getting unwanted PMs from men regarding their penis size, etc., then it's no wonder Pelosi is now Speaker of the House. Damn, people really have lost sight of reality.

Let's see if I can make this easy. LPSG is primarily for those with a penis (go figure). Women are of course welcome, but only because the straight members of the group enjoy mixed company for obvious reasons. What other practical contributions can be made by someone with NO penis?

The absolute nerve of a female to join a penis group and then complain of unsolicited PMs from horny guys is beyond comprehension.

Everyone should heed my advice, and for goodness sake stop pestering this inocent female penis group member with comments about penis. God knows she DOESn't want attention.
 

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I'm 99% straight. I haven't gotten any pms from guys showing me their cocks. I guess people don't find Hans moleman attractive:frown1:

"It's like kissing a peanut!" *hopes someone gets that*

Do you guys actually think you're going to get responses like "oh yeah, that's what I'm looking for baby, lemme see it." I suppose maybe some do, but I'd imagine they are very, very, very few.

I think many do... but most of them are actually dudes. :biggrin1:

I may be horribly wrong here (I often am) but I think that, while in the 'real world' it's generally accepted for the man to approach the woman, ask her out, etc. (not trying to sound sexist, just the way I see it), in the online world, the reverse is true.

I have no problem with PMs myself. They're all quite flattering really. I just have this terrible tendency to forget to reply to them (especially when they're way too long or ask way too many questions).
 

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You are illustrating an apparently common mistake among guys here. Just because a woman likes big cock and is here to talk about it, doesn't mean she wants anything to do with YOUR big cock.
We have a personal ad section here on the website. Use it if you want. But I think it's pretty reasonable to ask that guys keep their proverbial dick in their pants and keep the pitiful, unsolicited pining out of other members' personal inboxes. ESPECIALLY when a PM is so obviously a form letter sent to every female member.

Tiff86,

Quite frankly, you sound pretty pathetic (and no, I've never PM'd her). This post is a classic, "Woe is me...I'm too popular."

Jesus Christ. If people can't see how ridiculous it is for a female member of the LARGE PENIS SUPPORT GROUP to complain about getting unwanted PMs from men regarding their penis size, etc., then it's no wonder Pelosi is now Speaker of the House. Damn, people really have lost sight of reality.

Let's see if I can make this easy. LPSG is primarily for those with a penis (go figure). Women are of course welcome, but only because the straight members of the group enjoy mixed company for obvious reasons. What other practical contributions can be made by someone with NO penis?

The absolute nerve of a female to join a penis group and then complain of unsolicited PMs from horny guys is beyond comprehension.

Everyone should heed my advice, and for goodness sake stop pestering this inocent female penis group member with comments about penis. God knows she DOESn't want attention.
 

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If you are a really hot chick and you dress up real sexy and go out to a bar, more than likely you are going to get hit on by a lot of men. You would also probably expect this sort of behavior from them. If it bothered you so much I would think that you would either a) not pay any attention to them and/or politely decline or b) not go out to a bar looking sexy in the first place.

If you go out looking hot your going to get attention.

If your a female at a Large Cock Webstie your going to get attention.

I would think in both cases if you weren't getting any attention you might be worried a bit so its probably better that your getting them that not no? Take it as a compliment, pity the fool who thinks his cock ad approach might work, and then IGNORE it and go on about your business talking about cocks etc...
 

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Cant say i get many perverts, and generally if someone is up for a honest chat or a question fine..PM for a while then im more than happy to go onto yahoo etc but if you start off with any of these things it will probably end pretty abruptly.

1) A PM from a guy with a 0 post count.. i know you are after nothing but quick and easy thrills

2) Guys asking for photo's..If i was willing to show more id put them in a gallery

3) The do you like my cock, is it big? ..At least say hi first and introduce yourself

4) Nice boobs.. I appreciate, but what more can i say but thanks

5) Asking for or offering phone numbers... Ring a 1800 number, they are trained a that stuff, im not
 

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This is my first site were I participate in discussions. I am guilty of doing this exact thing tonight. I am learning the etiquite and do apologize. I won't be sending out mass hellos to all the women.

I will work on having meaningful conversation regarding my big cock and the women who want to do the same.
 

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I Really dont hear from many women on here. I dont pm women on here because i dont know them . I understand her being upset. The easy way is just dont open the pm if you dont know who it is . I get pms mainly from the guys and thats fine with me. I feel comfortable sending a pm to a guy i dont know. For me with a woman its different. If i do pm a woman its about a post they made or saying welcome to a new member. My interest here isnt the women. Not that i dont find them pretty and smart. To guys who are being nasty to this women please stop!!! I dont send pics. My pics are in my gallery. This morning i have 5 pms all guys!! Great!!! So see im here for the guys. So guys pm me!!!:cool:
 

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I dont really see a need to PM...There isnt much i wouldnt say here that needs a PM
There are some great people on here and its nice to hear from them All the pms i have gotten since i have been here have been really nice!:cool:
 

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I dont really see a need to PM...There isnt much i wouldnt say here that needs a PM

I am quite a big fan of PMs, to be honest. I use them, because I have developed friendships with people and care to converse with them. Sometimes, msn or yahoo or whatever is quite hard to arrange.

I see what you are saying, Lee... it is just my thoughts on the subject. Random PMs from people I don't know can be annoying but I try to give people a chance because I was once a newbie.:cool:
 

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I'm aware that a minority of the gay membership would like this site to be 100% male and are making women feel unwelcome.

As Matthew said, your unsubstantiated claim is irrelevant to this discussion Yorkie and appears to be gay biased for some strange reason. Nevertheless your allegation would carry more weight if you gave him lpsg links to examples of these persons as he is a moderator and those who violate the TOS should be brought to his attention. Those who make others feel unwelcome here are named and shamed regardless of their sexualities.
 

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As Matthew said, your unsubstantiated claim is irrelevant to this discussion Yorkie and appears to be gay biased for some strange reason. Nevertheless your allegation would carry more weight if you gave him lpsg links to examples of these persons as he is a moderator and those who violate the TOS should be brought to his attention. Those who make others feel unwelcome here are named and shamed regardless of their sexualities.
Yes Dreamer. You are right. Im here for the men. If i were looking for a women this would be the last place i would come. They guys who are being nasty to this girl or anyone else should stop. Yes they should provide proof to back up there claims. For me i have no complaints about anyone. Everyone has been so nice to me since i have joined. I have made some great friends on lpsg. :cool:
 

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jeff black said:
I am quite a big fan of PMs, to be honest. I use them, because I have developed friendships with people and care to converse with them. Sometimes, msn or yahoo or whatever is quite hard to arrange.
I see what you are saying, Lee... it is just my thoughts on the subject. Random PMs from people I don't know can be annoying but I try to give people a chance because I was once a newbie.:cool:

Wow, I agree with Jeff wholeheartedly! PM's are a great tool!

Golly, sorry that you're just so hot and so amazing, that you get deluged with PM's. Jeeze, why do you think that BronxBombshell has all of that stuff on her signature? Blocking the individual user is probably the best thing. The chatroom is crazy, and not for everyone... how else are we going to get to know one another? That's what makes this site great... the fact that we all behave like friends, because we are.
 

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...I think it's pretty reasonable to ask that guys keep their proverbial dick in their pants and keep the pitiful, unsolicited pining out of other members' personal inboxes. ESPECIALLY when a PM is so obviously a form letter sent to every female member.

I can't picture that,
having never sent one out.
Does it go like this?

Dear Miss [_STUD-HUNTER____]
I think that you're really hot.
Wanna see my cock?

Dear Miss [_
______LOUANNA__]
I think that you're really hot.
Wanna see my cock?

Dear Miss [__MADAME ZO...__]

(Shit! Too many syllables.
Lemme try again.)

Dear Miss [__ZORA, MA'AM___]
I think that you're really hot.
Wanna see my cock?


Yes, I am joking,
but I can really see how
that could be a pain.
 

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Wow, I agree with Jeff wholeheartedly! PM's are a great tool!

Golly, sorry that you're just so hot and so amazing, that you get deluged with PM's. Jeeze, why do you think that BronxBombshell has all of that stuff on her signature? Blocking the individual user is probably the best thing. The chatroom is crazy, and not for everyone... how else are we going to get to know one another? That's what makes this site great... the fact that we all behave like friends, because we are.

I've had the privilege of meeting many lovely and interesting people on this site via PM. That's why I don't discourage PM's but I reserve the right to not reply or say "no, thanks" as i've already mentioned. PM's are easy to deflect. The chatroom is an entirely different scenario. Almost every time I enter the chatroom, someone messages me and wants to chat one-on-one. It's kinda tough to chat with 2 or 3 individuals at once as well as involving myself in the discussion at hand in the chatroom, and i'll often tell them i'd rather have them PM me and chat later so I can include myself in the discussion. It ends up being more hassle than it's worth, which is why i'm seldom in the chatroom these days.
 
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I can't speak for anyone else but I think for me it's not about the inconvenience of getting the PMs. It's really not that big a deal to just delete the ones I don't want. I think what occasionally gets me peeved is the idea that these guys are so clueless that they actually think women want their unsolicited penis ads. Do you guys actually think you're going to get responses like "oh yeah, that's what I'm looking for baby, lemme see it." I suppose maybe some do, but I'd imagine they are very, very, very few.

If finding out that people are clueless frustrates you you will spend most of your life being frustrated.
 

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If finding out that people are clueless frustrates you you will spend most of your life being frustrated.

Ha, perhaps. But I think I have not yet reached your level of cynisism and overall frustration, NIC, so this stuff still surprises me!
One last comment for me on the PM thing. At least half the PMs I get are totally fine, and many I'm happy to respond to. And sometimes of course I initiate PMs of my own. I guess my one pet peeve are the mass PMs and the unsolicited photos (OK, that's 2 pet peeves). The mass PMs are so obnoxious, especially the ones that are worded to make it seem like they're individualized. And the photos are just invasive. I open my inbox and there they are. Not that I dislike looking at a nice cock, mind you, but not like that. Not someone forcing theirs into my line of sight.
 

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As Matthew said, your unsubstantiated claim is irrelevant to this discussion Yorkie/quote] Not after I replied to him!.The title of the thread is ''Annoying PMs''.If I and a few others sent you PMs saying ''I don't like you being on here'' wouldn't you find it annoying at the very least.
[and appears to be gay biased for some strange reason.] The cases I'm talking about were PMs sent by a VERY TINY minority of the gay member ship.I have PMed with gay members and I regard them as friends,as I've stated before I appreciate the diversity here.
[Nevertheless your allegation would carry more weight if you gave him lpsg links to examples of these persons as he is a moderator and those who violate the TOS should be brought to his attention. Those who make others feel unwelcome here are named and shamed regardless of their sexualities.
As I'm sure you've noticed I'm not a woman so I wasn't on the recieving end.It's up to the recipients if they want to take it to the moderator.
I get the feeling they'd rather just forget about it (as would I!).
If the senders would come on this thread and explain themselves I'd be interested in hearing what they have to say.
Peace and love. :cool:

OK, how the f*$! does the multi quote work?
Please read the whole thing!
 

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I wasn't going to say anything, because everyone already knows how I feel about this matter, but I was lurking and saw that Yorkie needed defending. He is absolutely correct. There is a miniscule minority of gay members who do not believe women should be here. One important lesson I learned is that no one is alone. So if one person brings you an opinion, there are others who have drawn the same conclusion. I have only encountered one gay man who doesn't want women here. His banning was the swiftest banning I ever saw. I'm surprised Matt-matt was the first to be upset by Yorkie's assertion. He's the one who did the banning. Granted, this guy was an all-around troll, who apparently sent out unpleasant PMs to several people, males too. So perhaps that is why his misogyny was missed by some.

I will reiterate my position.

I don't believe any of us is against receiving flattering messages. I don't believe any of us is against being flirted with, or having guys hitting on us.

We are all against being disrespected. (Those of us who are healthy, anyway.) We are all against a certain degree of objectification. I don't know anyone who wants to be treated as a collection of parts rather than as a whole being. I am a woman, an intelligent, thoughtful, creative, and supportive woman, and I have no time for losers who come sniffing around, dick in hand. That is why there were never any explicit photos in my gallery. I'm not a deposit in the spank bank. I think that people here, male and female alike, only protest against messages which feel dirty, demoralizing, humiliating, disrespectful, cheap.

The same goes for Instant Messages in the chat. Are you aware that if someone is typing a message to the room, or to another member, that if you send them an unsolicited picture of your cock at the same moment that they are hitting the "enter" key, they will be forced to download a file from a stranger (which could be corrupt) which will automatically open? I am VERY aware of this fact. Two small children were almost aware of it the other day as well. How dare some men send me pictures of their penises without my express permission? If I wanted to see, I'd go to their gallery and then ask them for more. Hell, I'd still have a subscription! Anyway, I'm in full rant mode now, so I'll just stop. Ladies and gentlemen, no flashing. It's inapropriate in public, it's inapropriate here.
 

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I wasn't going to say anything, because everyone already knows how I feel about this matter, but I was lurking and saw that Yorkie needed defending. He is absolutely correct. There is a miniscule minority of gay members who do not believe women should be here. One important lesson I learned is that no one is alone. So if one person brings you an opinion, there are others who have drawn the same conclusion. I have only encountered one gay man who doesn't want women here. His banning was the swiftest banning I ever saw. I'm surprised Matt-matt was the first to be upset by Yorkie's assertion. He's the one who did the banning. Granted, this guy was an all-around troll, who apparently sent out unpleasant PMs to several people, males too. So perhaps that is why his misogyny was missed by some.

I will reiterate my position.

I don't believe any of us is against receiving flattering messages. I don't believe any of us is against being flirted with, or having guys hitting on us.

We are all against being disrespected. (Those of us who are healthy, anyway.) We are all against a certain degree of objectification. I don't know anyone who wants to be treated as a collection of parts rather than as a whole being. I am a woman, an intelligent, thoughtful, creative, and supportive woman, and I have no time for losers who come sniffing around, dick in hand. That is why there were never any explicit photos in my gallery. I'm not a deposit in the spank bank. I think that people here, male and female alike, only protest against messages which feel dirty, demoralizing, humiliating, disrespectful, cheap.

The same goes for Instant Messages in the chat. Are you aware that if someone is typing a message to the room, or to another member, that if you send them an unsolicited picture of your cock at the same moment that they are hitting the "enter" key, they will be forced to download a file from a stranger (which could be corrupt) which will automatically open? I am VERY aware of this fact. Two small children were almost aware of it the other day as well. How dare some men send me pictures of their penises without my express permission? If I wanted to see, I'd go to their gallery and then ask them for more. Hell, I'd still have a subscription! Anyway, I'm in full rant mode now, so I'll just stop. Ladies and gentlemen, no flashing. It's inapropriate in public, it's inapropriate here.
So this is the guy who was doing all this?:confused:
 

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For consideration:

When I first came to this cabbage patch doll collecting site I blocked the pm feature. Then I unblocked it and it was OK for awhile but lately I'm getting lots of annoying pms from fans of cabbage patch dolls telling me the size of their collection or bragging what they could do with it or sometimes sending me a photo of it. Does this annoy anyone else? I don't know about the other lovers of cabbage patch dolls here but if a person I don't know just starts a convo by talking about his cabbage patch doll, I have no interest in that.
I hope some of the other people are reading this. I don't mean to be annoying but, well, it's annoying!
 

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Doesn't annoy me at all - I have the choice to just ignore and delete any offending messages. And if I was uptight about being sent pictures of cocks I would not have joined a site dedicated to large penises.

That said - I would far sooner view pictures of cocks when I choose to, not when some guy thinks I should. It's only polite to ask first. And being sent pictures in the chatroom unsolicited is a huge worry.
 

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I love all my Pm's I don't always answer them but I do like getting them. The majority of the men here are really cool.

In defence of Yorkie. I have had two men tell me to fuck off and take my skanky pussy with me , and that I didn't belong on a penis site - nasty Pm's do happen. I nearly did exactly that.

Thats the down side toi PM's....the good FAR outweighs the bad.


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