Annoying Urge That Can't Let Go

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Mostly here to vent lpl. Married with my wife love her to death. But lately ive been so curious to give a guy a blowjob always had to curiosity before I met her but lately the urge has been pretty high. I tried to tell her a long time I was curious before I met her she got weirded out so definitely can't tell her or talk to her about it
 

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I realize that you are venting and only you can decide if this desire progresses to the next level. It seems like something has held you back from taking the next step in the past. I also have had lingering urges even when I am in a relationship and away from my past partners. But, for me, I simply ask myself who I am and how do I want to live and I let go of the urge, no matter how tempting. I can’t advise you what to do, but if you decide that you want to remain faithful to your wife, then I would advise that you may want to spend less time looking at dicks at LPSG. To consistently tempt yourself and remind yourself of the fantasy act, you are just making yourself feel more torn and instead of venting, you may find yourself doing something that you later regret. I am sure others would say you only live once, go for it. I don’t want to advise either way; I just advise that if you decide not to act, please step back away from the fire.

Good luck!
 

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I realize that you are venting and only you can decide if this desire progresses to the next level. It seems like something has held you back from taking the next step in the past. I also have had lingering urges even when I am in a relationship and away from my past partners. But, for me, I simply ask myself who I am and how do I want to live and I let go of the urge, no matter how tempting. I can’t advise you what to do, but if you decide that you want to remain faithful to your wife, then I would advise that you may want to spend less time looking at dicks at LPSG. To consistently tempt yourself and remind yourself of the fantasy act, you are just making yourself feel more torn and instead of venting, you may find yourself doing something that you later regret. I am sure others would say you only live once, go for it. I don’t want to advise either way; I just advise that if you decide not to act, please step back away from the fire.

Good luck!
Thanks, I haven't been on this site in so long but I will remain faithful no matter what. But thank you for the response :)
 
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Thanks, I haven't been on this site in so long but I will remain faithful no matter what. But thank you for the response :)
If that is your decision, ( it mirrors what I would do), just look at it as a staunch sign of your love that you willingly give up a ‘need’ to be true to yourself and her. Enjoy your marriage!
 

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Thanks, I haven't been on this site in so long but I will remain faithful no matter what.
Mostly here to vent lpl. Married with my wife love her to death. But lately ive been so curious to give a guy a blowjob always had to curiosity before I met her but lately the urge has been pretty high. I tried to tell her a long time I was curious before I met her she got weirded out so definitely can't tell her or talk to her about it



I understand completely. I have the same need and urge and it only gets worse the older I get. Happily married as well.

If you ever want to talk. Send me a msg.