Another Hymen Thread

Discussion in 'Women's Issues' started by B_Mademoiselle Rouge, Jan 22, 2012.

  1. B_Mademoiselle Rouge

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    Dolfette's carnie hymen made me think we should all talk about our hymens.

    I took the liberty of spending damn near 30 minutes in MSPaint drawing up what mine looks like now. I also included a picture of the various types of hymens so you could use them for reference.

    I know the remnant of my hymen is different since pairing up with my husband because of his girth. And after realizing this I now know why I felt like I was tearing like mad.

    I had the rare fimbriated hymen shown here: Healthy Strokes - Hymen Gallery

    What kind of hymen did/do you have?
     

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  2. D_Fiona_Farvel

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    You know, I do not have a hymen. Haven't had one since I was very young (unfortunate downhill on a Schwinn meets parked car biking accident), so I have no idea what mine looked like before it was ruptured. :shrug:
     
  3. B_Mademoiselle Rouge

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    I was far too curious! I know my hymen a little too well. Along with my urethral meatus and anus. Hell pretty much every piece of my anatomy has been well inspected by a mirror or a magnifying glass or a camera.
     
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    Years later, I read Our bodies, Ourselves and Lady, Love Your Cunt, then viewed my bits with a mirror, took pics with a Polaroid, now usually a mobile or web cam - unfortunately, there's really nothing left of my hymen.

    Not to jack your thread, MR, but I recall that period of exploration, where I learned how everything responded and looked… even finding an example of my vulva in a Betty Dodson book and thinking, "OMG! That's me! I'm OK!" to be one of my most powerful moments of womanhood.
     
  5. B_Mademoiselle Rouge

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    Oh man! I asked to have this thread deleted because I didn't think anyone was enjoying it. Oh well, we can continue that sort of topic in another thread or make one about it. I loved Our Bodies, Our selves.
     
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    I used to do a lot of looking in my pre-sex days, but I think my hymen was history shortly after puberty, possibly before. More recently, I found what I thought were skin tags, but after a moment or reflection, I realised they were the last tattered remnants of my hymen.
     
  7. vibrationzzz

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    I'm wondering why some celebrity couple has not called one of their kids Hymen, yet.
     
  8. B_Mademoiselle Rouge

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    Girl I totally know what you are talking about. I had to really look for these pieces also. Tattered is a PERFECT word for what I have.
     
  9. SpoLLe

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    I'm batting 1.000 when it comes to hymens. I've had sex with 4 girls, and all of them still had their hymen in tact when I first had sex with them.
     
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    Rouge, my wife's was very real. we laugh about the night now but it was scary and embarassing then. It is not that I am gigantic, but we decided that the best thing to do was for her to be on top and lower herself down. She came down faster than expected-- the hymen broke and she started bleeding. We could not get it stopped. Turned out it we had torn a vein, so we spent part of the next day of our honeymoon at an emergency room (where we knew everyone) getting her a stitch. We were embarassed; everyone in the ER thought it was funny, especially when they told us how long to let the thing heal. Hymen's can be very real, keep talking about them.
     
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    I'm guessing that mine was annihilated the first time I had sex, because it hurt like hell. I have no idea what it looked like before, but there's not a shred of it left now.

    I've never had that moment!!! Every time I've got a mirror and gone looking, I've ended up feeling kind of disgusted. I'm truly not a fan of the appearance of vagina's and their surrounds, mine or anyone else's.

    Penises are much prettier IMO (no guys, that isn't an open invitation to send cock pics).
     
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    I need to have a stupid questions thread...cause I have a lot of questions >_< :(
     
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    other than a split down the middle my hymen is pretty much still intact. urm, kinda looks like a third very tiny set of upside down inner-inner labia.

    pretty sure *based on early fiddling/current appearance* me hymen was a lunar?
    werewolf vag :biggrin:

    stupid questions sometimes have awesome answers... ask away.
     
  14. B_Mademoiselle Rouge

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    Please ask!
     
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    No worries, some people feel that way. :shrug:
    Personally, I love the look of the vuvla and the variety (of everything) from woman to woman. Apart from the folds/hidden nature of lady bits, there's an equivalence to the qualities and responses of human genitalia.

    However, I agree, there's something about a penis - the heft of it, watching it go from soft and squishy to rock hard... the silkyness. But, my stuff is definitely equally awesome. :biggrin1:
     
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    I deflowered myself a while before I first had sex. Was playing around, finger slipped and ouch, the sharpest and worst pain possible strikes me!
    I pretty much ripped out my hymen, cause I had it on my finger afterwards and I was also bleeding a bit.
    Oh well, somehow I am glad this had not happened to me during my first time, as this sharp pain would have definately ruined this experience for me.
    So yeah, I have no hymen at all left anymore. And yes, I looked for it. I do look at my ladybits with a mirror sometimes, and I like it :wink:
     
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    I wish I liked the appearance but I just don't :redface:. I've come to the conclusion that it seems to be just one of those personal aesthetics things that aren't really down to reasons. Kinda like how I love the colour blue, but hate orange.


    Yep, all those things and more :biggrin1:. Although I'll politely shut up about penises now and leave the thread to hymens and lady bits.
     
  18. ManofThunder

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    I'm sorry to interrupt, but I thought you liked orange! My world is shattered. :tongue:
     
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    *giggles* Maybe you should get a blue one next time :tongue::tongue::tongue:. In the meantime, the orange one has such a beautiful form and comes accompanied by such a beautiful object that the colour is easily overlooked.
     
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    Well, I'm glad you don't discriminate. :tongue:
     
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