Another question for guys who identify as straight

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Any human can recognize good bone structure and features in another. It's aesthetics. Sexual attraction and gender have nothing to do with it, hence why you you can so easily tell when someone is ugly. Derrrr.
 

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I've heard many times on this site from "straight" men who say they don't find guys attractive at all. I know straight women, lesbian and bi women and bi and gay guys who all say they find some guys attractive. If all these people find guys somewhat attractive, what is the block for straight guys around this issue? It's hard to understand from my POV. When I hear all these defensive answers, it confuses and angers me. I've even had some straight guys tell me here on this site that I should respect their sexuality, although to me I don't think I should because straight guys have never been a oppressed group. In fact they're been on the top of the social heap forever. I still want to understand this attitude though so I bring it up in this way to hear people's thoughts. Thanks.


Children have never been oppressed either..... Should they have to listen to pathetic venting from you cause they don't like it when you ask them if you can blow them?

From my "POV" people that define themselves by their weaknesses, trials and tribulations aren't worthy of rights from the people they as to protect them. Don't really see gays as an oppressed group, aside from the boyscouts what system oppresses you? Oppression is the willful resistance of a group in order to limit control or remove a smaller group. I:e nazis-jews , u.s gov-blacks, the romans-christians........ When has it ever been a law gays couldn't vote, when have you been legally banned from a straight establishment, hell when have you been limited, restected or removed by anything except for individuals with their own "POV" who also have no respect for people that bother them? Hell more straight people are an oppressed group then ALL gays combined...... They're called WOMEN..... But they don't have parts you wanna fuck so they don't even merit consideration.

I'm straight...... Its not an attitude, I just don't wanna fuck a man..... I've tried it. Its obvious I don't by me listing "straight"....... You might not understand how the world turns, but you can't talk it still and you're not gonna whine a straight guy into changing his sexuality. Think of us as the girls who only marry billionaires....... You don't have the parts that turn us on.
 

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Any human can recognize good bone structure and features in another. It's aesthetics. Sexual attraction and gender have nothing to do with it, hence why you you can so easily tell when someone is ugly. Derrrr.

Exactly, if a gay guy thinks julia roberts is prettier than rosie o'donald is he secretly straight or just NOT secretly blind?
 

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irish your still dropping "straight" knowledge after all these years. You bring so much to a conversation. I wish I could add to this but I have personally had the opposite experience. Mostly I have friends that I want to see naked, it may be a subconscious thing but I believe thats why I identify as more gay than not. I may enjoy the female form and love sucking tits, but find that I prefer the kind of bond that men share as it feels honest and straight forward. My experience with most women has led me down the road of hyper generalizing them and a general distrust of most of them.

That being said after years of having sex with men who identify as straight, I've actually begun to have sex with men who identify as gay (at least one in 3).

Back to your point. Personally I think all men crave the companionship of men, not in a sexual sense but in a like minded, similarly cut from the same cloth "you get me" kind of thing. We challenge each other physically and intellectually as well as empathize sometimes without words in a way that (when there is no sexual tension or desire) is the closest you can get to being family without being family. I've found a couple friends who fill that need and have taken them on as surrogate brothers. It's the best thing in the world to have that male bond with no sexual tension. It's a bond that is not as cheesy as the stuff in movies but does complete what I believe are the need men have to bond with other men. PLATONIC, deep and from a guy who really likes other guys, completely sexless. They are both straight have known I was queer before I told them and I've never had better friends.