So read a few of these and have a bit of a different situation. I've been seeing this girl for a few months and she says she was a virgin when we met. Not sure if i believe it but who knows. Anyhow we had sex about a month ago and since then have had very little sex. She says she has to be drunk to do it because when we do it sober she says she can't relax. I've tried lots of forplay and kissing etc. but still she doesn't even want to try anymore. Its gotten to the point where i'll finger her and she loves it and go down on her but won't do anything for me (never really has, doesn't give blow jobs, and never touches me as she says penis are weird). This is all very new and weird to me. I really like this girl but sex is very important and I feel very neglected as I'm left with blue balls almost everytime we are together. For the last two times she slept over I never even tried to do anything. No kissing etc. Didn't do anything for her just cuddled and fell asleep. What can I do to give her the hint. Have talked to her about and she says she doesn't want to/like to. I mean I want her to like it but I feel like she doesn't like me if she has to be drunk every time. Also did I make a bad move by not trying anything the last two times? Thanks for reading my long post.