Another Thing I Have Wondered....

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... so do gay guys want to "break in" a straight guy?
I can't imagine younger gay men are not aware of the fact as men put on a few years they undergo sexual "shifts" if you will. Becoming interested in things they never even thought about when they were young.
I would wager that half of men 50+ would secretly want to experiment with a younger gay man.
Is that a turn off for you, turn on?
 
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I personally don't see the appeal of trying to "break in" a straight guy. I have plenty of friends that really love the idea of it but to me it seems like a lot of work and effort for what would probably be a shit shag. I guess gay guys would feel it's some kind of achievement to be able to turn a straight guy. I would rather have a great fuck with someone who know what they are doing!

As for older/younger - I have always gone for guys that are older than me. I was recently involved with a guy who I've been fucking for 10 years but last year it got very intense. I would actually say it's the first time I've ever loved someone. I'm 36 and he is 56.


or are you thinking about a bigger age gap?
 

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... so do gay guys want to "break in" a straight guy?
I can't imagine younger gay men are not aware of the fact as men put on a few years they undergo sexual "shifts" if you will. Becoming interested in things they never even thought about when they were young.
I would wager that half of men 50+ would secretly want to experiment with a younger gay man.
Is that a turn off for you, turn on?

Older men and younger guys have been a thing like - forever. My first time was with an older guy when I was fucked for the first time. Age neve really mattered too much to me. As I got older my partners shifted from older to peers, to younger. I don't look for age per se, I look for willing and fun. Good attitude matters most.

Straight guys are a little different. I've been with a lot of straight guys - most of whom were young guys (of age) that wanted o make some cash or use cash as a reason to experiment. A straight guy in a hustler bar is fair game. Straight guys looking to experiment look around and find the cruising area, certain bars, etc. The Navy Yard in Washington has a Marine Barracks nearby and there are usually jarheads looking to make a friend for some quick money. A straight guy is not per se something I look for, but if he's game, I'm game. They can be dramatic at times so caution and conversation about expectations and what they want to do or not is critical.
 
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I personally don't see the appeal of trying to "break in" a straight guy. I have plenty of friends that really love the idea of it but to me it seems like a lot of work and effort for what would probably be a shit shag. I guess gay guys would feel it's some kind of achievement to be able to turn a straight guy. I would rather have a great fuck with someone who know what they are doing!

As for older/younger - I have always gone for guys that are older than me. I was recently involved with a guy who I've been fucking for 10 years but last year it got very intense. I would actually say it's the first time I've ever loved someone. I'm 36 and he is 56.


or are you thinking about a bigger age gap?
No not a larger gap. And certainly not underage.
Just curious.
 

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No, for me, that idea has absolutely zero appeal. If I'm going to be exploring a romantic connection with a man, it should be apparent that he is the sort of man for whom the interest could be mutual. If a man is going to present as Straight, I'd much rather mentally compartmentalize him as a friend/colleague and off-limits romantically.

I realize some dudes have a fetish for Straight guys, and go to some efforts to secret nudes of them, and try to seduce them into having sex, but that is just creepy, desperate, and pathetic as far as I am concerned; I have nothing but contempt for it.
 

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... so do gay guys want to "break in" a straight guy?
I can't imagine younger gay men are not aware of the fact as men put on a few years they undergo sexual "shifts" if you will. Becoming interested in things they never even thought about when they were young.
I would wager that half of men 50+ would secretly want to experiment with a younger gay man.
Is that a turn off for you, turn on?
I’m too big to break him in, it’ll be more of a busting in!
 

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... so do gay guys want to "break in" a straight guy?
I can't imagine younger gay men are not aware of the fact as men put on a few years they undergo sexual "shifts" if you will. Becoming interested in things they never even thought about when they were young.
I would wager that half of men 50+ would secretly want to experiment with a younger gay man.
Is that a turn off for you, turn on?

Some do. Some don't.
 

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I have no interest in breaking in a younger guy but personally I wished I had come across an older gay man to introduce me to gay sex at an earlier stage in my life.

It would have clarified things for me at a time I was conflicted about what my sexuality was. I remember the struggle and risks I took to explore my homosexuality secretively. I didn't have anyone to talk to about my fears.
 
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