So this isn't exactly a Women's Issue but rather a question to the women of LPSG. From what I've seen here and elsewhere it's a generally accepted idea that some men derive pleasure from the idea of their wife pleasing or being pleasured by another man; as well I've seen gay men feel that way about their partners. I've also seen women who find the idea or act of their husband pleasing or receiving pleasure from another man erotic. However I can't say I've ever heard of a woman saying the parallel to the first scenario (enjoying the idea of her husband having sex with another woman). I asked Vaeyinn and she said that she'd read one post by a woman wanting to see her husband make another woman squirm. But aside from that one instance it seems like a vacuum in experiences and desires I've heard people express. I'm just curious, have I simply not run across this? Do you think it's just as common among women as it is among men? If not, any thoughts on why not?