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D_Edwin Eatser

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As swingers we enjoy watching the other one with someone of the same, or the opposite sex. Rose says she really likes watching me with another woman, but she's always actively involved sexually in what is going on and isn't just a passive observer. Can't imagine many women who would just sit by a bed clothed and watch their man with another woman, cuckold-style.
 

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I can't leave this place alone for five minutes (a few days) without things veering off course! I got excited when I saw that a bunch of posts had transpired but was disappointed when I saw what most of them were about.

Xspree, I don't know if you were bitten by a troll or if it comes naturally to you but please, I would appreciate it if you got on topic, and were less excitable in your posts.

Anyway, the cuckolding thing seems to be a bust which isn't a huge surprise however freyasfolk brings up another interesting scenario. Since few women here have expressed that they would/could derive pleasure from watching their partner with another woman does that feeling change at all if there is someone there entertaining you separately but in close proximity? "Parallel Play" if you will?

Also the question appears to be changing from "Do any women find it pleasurable?" to "Do any women find it inoffensive?"

Also is the League for over-all inexhaustible sexual vigor exclusively or would someone who could go for a long time but once they crested the mountain top would be down for the count be ineligible?
 

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I can't leave this place alone for five minutes (a few days) without things veering off course! I got excited when I saw that a bunch of posts had transpired but was disappointed when I saw what most of them were about.

Xspree, I don't know if you were bitten by a troll or if it comes naturally to you but please, I would appreciate it if you got on topic, and were less excitable in your posts.

I notice that my reply to the above poster was edited so that the part which was actually on topic was gone. Apologies. As that portion said, he had cheatin' mixed up with polyamory.
Also is the League for over-all inexhaustible sexual vigor exclusively or would someone who could go for a long time but once they crested the mountain top would be down for the count be ineligible?

Would you be asking for reasons of personal eligibility? :wink: In any case, I don't make the League. I am far too easy to tire out and also hair-trigger orgasm.
 

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Is this a "For Women Only" league, or can guys join too?

As prettyswinggirl is all for it, so am I. You're in! There may be some initiation rituals for certain people though :biggrin1::tongue:.


Anyway, the cuckolding thing seems to be a bust which isn't a huge surprise however freyasfolk brings up another interesting scenario. Since few women here have expressed that they would/could derive pleasure from watching their partner with another woman does that feeling change at all if there is someone there entertaining you separately but in close proximity? "Parallel Play" if you will?

Parallel play wouldn't change it for me.


Also is the League for over-all inexhaustible sexual vigor exclusively or would someone who could go for a long time but once they crested the mountain top would be down for the count be ineligible?

As long as you can outfuck most or all partners before you go down for the count, you're in.


Would you be asking for reasons of personal eligibility? :wink: In any case, I don't make the League. I am far too easy to tire out and also hair-trigger orgasm.

I also have a hair trigger orgasm, but I don't get overstimulated enough to say stop :biggrin1:.


I can think of a few men who would qualify for the League! If Subgirrl doesn't object of course! Lol!

No objections here :biggrin1:
 

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I can't leave this place alone for five minutes (a few days) without things veering off course! I got excited when I saw that a bunch of posts had transpired but was disappointed when I saw what most of them were about.

Xspree, I don't know if you were bitten by a troll or if it comes naturally to you but please, I would appreciate it if you got on topic, and were less excitable in your posts.

Anyway, the cuckolding thing seems to be a bust which isn't a huge surprise however freyasfolk brings up another interesting scenario. Since few women here have expressed that they would/could derive pleasure from watching their partner with another woman does that feeling change at all if there is someone there entertaining you separately but in close proximity? "Parallel Play" if you will?

In swinging there is tons of parallel play. And yes, it was always fine with me. Not only did I enjoy the company of another man (and sometimes plural) I enjoyed watching my husband please another woman.

Also the question appears to be changing from "Do any women find it pleasurable?" to "Do any women find it inoffensive?"

I still think the question should stand the way you first meant it. I did find it very pleasurable and am contemplating whether or not to partner up with a single male friend of mine so I have couple status again.

Also is the League for over-all inexhaustible sexual vigor exclusively or would someone who could go for a long time but once they crested the mountain top would be down for the count be ineligible?

Subgirrl seconded it! Welcome to the League! Still need a name though! Lol! :kiss:
 

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In the many years since I started having sex I've gone from one extreme to the other on this issue. I remember a time when I was young when I would have completely freaked out at the thought of my husband/boyfriend touching another woman, let alone actually having sex with her! Then at one point I was in a relationship in which we were becoming fairly hard-core swingers and the only thing that would have bothered me would have been if it had been behind my back.

It's difficult for people who have never been involved in the swing culture to understand, but I can't imagine sharing the person I love with someone else unless I feel completely secure. So inviting another woman (or couple) to join us sexually is indicative of having a very strong commitment. Seems like weird logic to some, I know. Although we currently soft-swing, my husband and I have discussed going to the next level and I think we're both ready if the mood strikes, all individuals are attracted and in agreement, the stars align (LOL), etc. I love the idea of being able to watch my husband have sex with another woman in part because I'll be able to see everything from a different angle and (hopefully) up close. I would certainly be imagining myself in her place and would get off by knowing exactly how good it feels.

On the other hand, I was very into BDSM for several years and the sub in me greatly enjoys the idea of being made to watch my husband have sex with another woman while I'm unable to join in. Maybe being "allowed" to pleasure myself at the same time, but maybe not. Maybe being told how great it is but not allowed to participate. This particular fantasy has been in my "frequent play" list for a while now and I like it a lot, but I'm not sure I'd actually want to do it in real life. I'd have to think about that. Although there is a D/s aspect to it, I don't feel like there's quite the humiliation factor involved as there is in the usual male cuckhold situation.

It's too bad there aren't enough of us to warrant any such porn, although in the early 80's (I think), I remember seeing a video that involved a woman being tied to a chair in a bedroom and made to watch her lover have sex with another woman on the bed just a few feet away. I still think about that scene sometimes. :biggrin1: