So, I've had sex in the past, but I was usually somewhat drunk and I it took a while for me to get it up. I assumed I was just susceptible to "whisky-dick". Recently I had sex with a girl when we we're both sober and I had the a similiar problem. I figured it must be that I'm on an anti-depressant. I know this can happen, but the weird part is that it is not the case during masterbation. Has anyone else had the same experience? I figured if it caused ED it would for sex and masterbation, but no! I am wondering weather I should tell her that I am on anti-depressents. She might be put off as that could be a sign of mental instability, which I assume the ladies don't like. However, I don't want her to think that there was something wrong with her. She has a few extra pounds on her and I think she might be self-concious about that. Also, she might think its kind of odd for someone 18 to have trouble getting it up.