I'm 28 and I'm in relatively good shape. I weight about 220lbs. I'm 5'11". I started excercising again.. and I have an office job where I don't move around too much, but I am considered and consider myself strong and able.
I have dealt with a alcoholic father and a mother with schizophrenia for most of my childhood.
My issue is this. For the last 2 years I have had problems maintaining erections. If I touch myself, I get hard no problem and I get off on porn no problem. When my wife or any other woman for that matter, no matter how beautiful or attractive I find them, I have immense difficulty getting hard and if I get that far, it is almost impossible for me to stay hard during sex, if I can get in at all.
It is to the point now where I have visited several urologists and they have given me antidepressants to use.
Viagra, Cialis, and the other one, forget the name, doesn't work at all. I mean, it makes me hard as hell if I touch myself, but once it's time to actually push in, I go limp. They don't give the effect of staying hard that I had hoped for.
My wife of 3 years has complained of pain during sex almost all the time and hardly approaches me for sex at all - I am the one going after her.
Normally, I am a grower. That is, pretty small until I get hard. But what I did notice is today, I have the cold, and my cock is hanging soft - very impressive looking at it myself - you know, when of those cocks you want to have for the first time a woman sees it, not a small shriveled up shrimp.
Does this sound like an anxiety problem or depression? I have been on at least 3 antidepressants but not Paxil.
Any ideas is welcome...
Signed,
Fucking Tired of Erectile Problems
I have dealt with a alcoholic father and a mother with schizophrenia for most of my childhood.
My issue is this. For the last 2 years I have had problems maintaining erections. If I touch myself, I get hard no problem and I get off on porn no problem. When my wife or any other woman for that matter, no matter how beautiful or attractive I find them, I have immense difficulty getting hard and if I get that far, it is almost impossible for me to stay hard during sex, if I can get in at all.
It is to the point now where I have visited several urologists and they have given me antidepressants to use.
Viagra, Cialis, and the other one, forget the name, doesn't work at all. I mean, it makes me hard as hell if I touch myself, but once it's time to actually push in, I go limp. They don't give the effect of staying hard that I had hoped for.
My wife of 3 years has complained of pain during sex almost all the time and hardly approaches me for sex at all - I am the one going after her.
Normally, I am a grower. That is, pretty small until I get hard. But what I did notice is today, I have the cold, and my cock is hanging soft - very impressive looking at it myself - you know, when of those cocks you want to have for the first time a woman sees it, not a small shriveled up shrimp.
Does this sound like an anxiety problem or depression? I have been on at least 3 antidepressants but not Paxil.
Any ideas is welcome...
Signed,
Fucking Tired of Erectile Problems