Anxious Moments In Cowgirl Position

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my wife and i just fucked in the cowgirl position and she came really soon and strong. it's a good game changer for us as i usually prefer the missionary position with variations a lot.
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however, sometimes in the cowgirl position i feel that when she is moving her torso in an angle greater than let's say 45 degrees i get a lot of pressure on my cock base and the penis ligament by her pelvis bone and it even hurts a little in some anxious moments. in the picture above my penis base would already hurt a lot!

I guess this goes in line with the fact that i cannot bend my erected cock down by much. i guess i (still) got a strong ligamentum suspensorium. How is this for other guys in this position, do you feel anxious as well at times? is it maybe different for bigger hung guys who's penis might have stretched that ligament more due to the weight of the penis? does it bend more during lifetime and thus allows more flexibility in different positions?
 
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I guess this goes in line with the fact that i cannot bend my erected cock down by much. i guess i (still) got a strong ligamentum suspensorium. How is this for other guys in this position, do you feel anxious as well at times? is it maybe different for bigger hung guys who's penis might have stretched that ligament more due to the weight of the penis? does it bend more during lifetime and thus allows more flexibility in different positions?

I've wondered about this same thing. I feel like my erected penis is somewhat stressed in cowgirl position. As a result, the sex is still very pleasurable, but it takes me longer to cum. This works well for both myself and my girlfriend as it still feels great to me, and she can bounce away as long as she wants to. She usually gets a pretty good orgasm and I can help with it by reaching her clitoris. We use this position or reverse cowgirl frequently, as we both enjoy them, however, I think reverse cowgirl does not bend my cock as much because of the angle of penetration.

I have a high upward angle erection and I wonder if it will change over time. In summary, I would not say it makes me feel anxious, but it does affect my performance and I notice the stress pulling my cock at a different angle.
 

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I hear ya - I am really anxious in the cowgirl position, sometimes from bending more in a direction I don’t like, or more of being nervous she is going to come down hard on my dick if I pop out. Almost too stressful for me to be any fun - but she enjoys it.
 

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my wife and i just fucked in the cowgirl position and she came really soon and strong. it's a good game changer for us as i usually prefer the missionary position with variations a lot.
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however, sometimes in the cowgirl position i feel that when she is moving her torso in an angle greater than let's say 45 degrees i get a lot of pressure on my cock base and the penis ligament by her pelvis bone and it even hurts a little in some anxious moments. in the picture above my penis base would already hurt a lot!

I guess this goes in line with the fact that i cannot bend my erected cock down by much. i guess i (still) got a strong ligamentum suspensorium. How is this for other guys in this position, do you feel anxious as well at times? is it maybe different for bigger hung guys who's penis might have stretched that ligament more due to the weight of the penis? does it bend more during lifetime and thus allows more flexibility in different positions?
Most of my partners can’t really sit up straight for very long if at all. I had an ex-gf, my first real ongoing sex partner, that was more experienced then I was and she would cum crazy hard grinding on top. She would do it so hard, she actually bruised my dick head. I didn’t realize it until I went home and touched it and felt the soreness.
 
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I work in surgical/urology in a hospital. Never seen a “cowgirl related injury”, but I’ve seen a couple of guys with penile fractures from reverse cowgirl.
Apparently, they heard a loud crack - like thunder.
Not.
Okay.
Ever.
This - this right here - good god!
 

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I experienced the same thing! The first time I had intercourse with my girlfriend she mounted me like in your picture . I even wrote a blog entry about it recently.

She worked her pelvis so vigorously it became uncomfortable to the point I worried she might break my dick off! I had never been fucked like that before! My thin cock was so rigid I thought it might snap to the pressure of the extreme angles she was exerting on it!

All I can say is my dick seemed to respond to the demands. As time went on it seemed to be conditioned to where it grew stronger. She could ride me cowgirl and I would even work my hips for some vigorous fucks and the discomfort wasn't there anymore. Just the pkeasure!

I loved to cum in her in this position to see it drip out of her when she dismouted, leaving my cock all gooed up in my seed and her juices. So hot!
 

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Wow, this is interesting. Thank you for sharing. I never even thought about this before. Cowgirl is my favourite position and usually the only position I can climax in.

About 10 years ago I had a fwb who was big. I remember one day he said something to me like... just because he has a big cock, doesn’t mean I can’t just take it easy. It’s only now that I actually understand what he meant.

I suppose it’s a good thing now that it feels best for me when I’m upright or leaning towards the guy, so I rarely would be in a position like that image.
 

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I experienced the same thing! The first time I had intercourse with my girlfriend she mounted me like in your picture . I even wrote a blog entry about it recently.

She worked her pelvis so vigorously it became uncomfortable to the point I worried she might break my dick off! I had never been fucked like that before! My thin cock was so rigid I thought it might snap to the pressure of the extreme angles she was exerting on it!

All I can say is my dick seemed to respond to the demands. As time went on it seemed to be conditioned to where it grew stronger. She could ride me cowgirl and I would even work my hips for some vigorous fucks and the discomfort wasn't there anymore. Just the pkeasure!

I loved to cum in her in this position to see it drip out of her when she dismouted, leaving my cock all gooed up in my seed and her juices. So hot!

niiice man! i mean don't get me wrong, she and i had a great time, she had a really strong orgasm and me too so it was most enjoyable but still the worries were constantly there somehow until it was over. Thanks God without any injuries like mentioned above yikes. i heard about such accidents and that must be just horrible to arrive at an ER like that.

What's great in this position is that she can find her best spots herself for once and have a nice orgasm by her own actions... i always think now you can see yourself how much leg work and so on it is haha...
 

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Curious for guys who have experienced this... is your cock generally proportioned to where it is longer but leaner in girth?

My erection is very lean but decent in length and, as a result, she can get a lot of leverage on it. I thought if my cock was thicker and stouter it would have more strength to take the vigorous fucking.

Thoughts?
 
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I ride my man this way but lean into him as well as sitting straight up. I control the pace & grind into him with my hips, I usually come multiple times this way & he sometimes does. When we were 1st together he told me it was difficult to orgasm that way. No more -:)))
The fact that by that time I've been worshipping & loving his cock for over an hour sure helps -:))) Now we haven't done reverse cowgirl, but I can see the concern there !
 
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I love this position and don't worry about that element of it, just if my guy starts bouncing up and down too much it can catch my dick in a funny position which then hurts like hell. Love it when my guy rocks back and forward on top and that's fine for me, but yeah do 'watch' what he's doing as I've heard of penile fractures too - eek
 

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I've had the same problem for years. My erection is a little more flexible now but if a partner leans too far back in cowgirl I still have to sit up to relieve the pressure. Otherwise it feels like she (or he) will snap me off.

Attention all cock riders: save the crazy for your dildo. :cool:
 

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My first wife loved cowgirl. It was her favorite position. She could control the action, plus we got the deepest penetration. I agree with love2compare, though: sometimes it could be a bit scary. I've got a pretty skinny cock (4" girth) -- it's pretty easy to bend -- so sometimes when the angle was off, it would torque my cock to the point I was afraid it'd "snap". There were a few scary-ass moments, but, thankfully, no permanent damage. Inside I was scared stiff but never let on

My current (2nd) wife likes cowgirl, also -- especially sessions when she "takes control". I think it's the psychological aspect with her as much as the physical. For some reason, it rarely happens with her; probably because she takes it "slower" than my first wife did.
 

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My first wife loved cowgirl. It was her favorite position. She could control the action, plus we got the deepest penetration. I agree with love2compare, though: sometimes it could be a bit scary. I've got a pretty skinny cock (4" girth) -- it's pretty easy to bend -- so sometimes when the angle was off, it would torque my cock to the point I was afraid it'd "snap". There were a few scary-ass moments, but, thankfully, no permanent damage. Inside I was scared stiff but never let on

My current (2nd) wife likes cowgirl, also -- especially sessions when she "takes control". I think it's the psychological aspect with her as much as the physical. For some reason, it rarely happens with her; probably because she takes it "slower" than my first wife did.

I had 4 1/2 inch girth while married. I, too, was afraid she'd break it and YES, it can be damaged! I used to stop her as my favorite organ was and is important to me.
 
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Curious for guys who have experienced this... is your cock generally proportioned to where it is longer but leaner in girth?

My erection is very lean but decent in length and, as a result, she can get a lot of leverage on it. I thought if my cock was thicker and stouter it would have more strength to take the vigorous fucking.

Thoughts?
my cock is leaner/long too and i'm always afraid of getting hurt when a girl climbs on top of me. there have been a few times when i've felt some pain, so i try to avoid the position.

i agree with you that guys with shorter and thicker cocks have the strength to be ridden rough.