My boyfriend "lost" his overnight bag. My bf would bring a small bag with him when he came to my house to stay overnight. It contained the obvious items...deodorant, toothbrush, condoms, and so forth. I noticed he stopped bringing it with him. When I asked about it he had that "deer in the headlights look" and just said he didn't know where it was. Of course my suspicious mind goes straight to "he stayed at someone's house and forgot it". I really think he cheated and am having a hard time getting over this. I think if we talked about it and he confessed we could move forward but as long as it's a secret between us we can't. One of the biggest problems is ME I have always had a "you cheat, I'm gone rule" I really love this guy and think I could forgive him but he knows about my rule and i don't think he'd ever confess hence we can't get over it. Any advice on how to bring the topic up or advice for me on how to "accept" he cheated and forgive him? We've been together over a year.