younghorse19: I'm 19 years old and im still technically a virgin. Erect im only 7 inches long but 10.5 girth(about a coke can). Every time I've managed to get close enough to a girl to have sex, she turns me down. Only one girl has tried, but after a while of trying for penetration she decided not to. If anybody has had this problem or has an idea of how to penetrate without hurting the girl, please post.