Any Bisexual Men Who Really Love Bisexual Women?

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While everyone is on the subject of "Do bi guys love xxx?" one of the things I'm missing here at LPSG is the question if any of you actually love bi women?

Personally I love being bi but back in the day before internet in the age of HIV, being male and bi was just something that men never admitted to other men or in public anywhere. So in public I always quashed my feelings and held them deep inside. An appropriate metaphor would be the equivalent of the Chilean miners that were trapped in the mine under 1/2 mile of solid granite and the rock was the equivalent of the emotional and social barrier that prevented me from talking about being bi with anyone else. Occasionally I'd meet a bi woman and admit I was bi to her. and that formed an emotional 'lifeline' that kept me sane and knowing I wasn't alone in being bi. For whatever reason the bi women I'd talk to were never available to me to reciprocate all the love I wanted to give to them, but at least they were there and I appreciated them.

And yes, I had the straight male fantasy of enjoying watching two women make out with each other and fantasize that one (or both) was bi and wanted me to be there with her. That never happened to me, but, hey, a guy can dream, right?

So even with all of my own feelings of enjoying and loving myself for being bi I've always appreciated and loved bi women, too.

in fact, at our local bi Pride booth two months ago I was totally enjoying the young bi women who came to our local bi booth for the swag we were handing out, and I just loved absorbing all the bi energy the women emitted from every pore. So i was clearly cuing my own bi energy and getting excited from receiving it from the bi women.

Oh, and then I find out that, just like the standard male fantasy of liking when I watch two women making out with each other, I discover there ARE actually some women (albeit rare) who, in turn, get hot watching the guys make out. So up to a few months ago I'd never even considered making out with a guy and kissing him while we rubbed our dicks together, but now if a bi woman was there and getting excited as I did so I'm thinking, he's getting hot while I'm snogging this guy and rubbing his boner against mine so now I'm getting all excited at the thought of her getting excited and now I want to French kiss the fuck out of his tongue and tonsils while I grab his ass and press our cocks together.

Does anyone else feel this way also, or am I the odd man out?
 

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The majority of my female partners have been bisexual. Part of that is due to chance: Even in situations where our orientation isn't directly stated (like on Tinder, for example), we'll both find out that we're both bisexual after the initial attraction and after we match. I guess my partners and I have just have a certain vibe that's particularly queer that attracts us to each other even though we don't know that for a fact.

Another part of that is intentional. I think that many straight women may still have certain ideas of gender roles and dating dynamics that don't make a whole lot of sense, whereas bisexual woman (and men) almost always have examined and questioned those problematic dynamics due to being queer, along with being subject to biphobia.

Tl;dr I think that Bisexual people understand each other better than a straight person and a Bisexual person will, and for that reason Bisexual women and I just "get" each other
 

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The majority of my female partners have been bisexual. Part of that is due to chance: Even in situations where our orientation isn't directly stated (like on Tinder, for example), we'll both find out that we're both bisexual after the initial attraction and after we match. I guess my partners and I have just have a certain vibe that's particularly queer that attracts us to each other even though we don't know that for a fact.
I'm happy for you! It's a good thing I'm clear across the country otherwise I'd be inviting myself over to your place just to have bi chats and hang with a bi couple. (that would be rude of me, I know) but I'd love to hear how you and your partner share each other's bi-ness, as everyone is different and has their own specific boundaries, even while being bi, so I'd imagine there's some discussion and lots of mutual respect so the other person's boundaries are never exceeded.

Of course, until recently I had a boundary that I was never going to kiss another guy, but when I discovered that bi women can get just as hot watching me snogg another bi guy as i used to do watching her french-kiss her girlfriends, then my inhibitions go away and I'm all ready to go for it while she gets hot.

So, I guess I can grow as I mature and enjoy myself even more.
Another part of that is intentional. I think that many straight women may still have certain ideas of gender roles and dating dynamics that don't make a whole lot of sense, whereas bisexual woman (and men) almost always have examined and questioned those problematic dynamics due to being queer, along with being subject to biphobia.

Tl;dr I think that Bisexual people understand each other better than a straight person and a Bisexual person will, and for that reason Bisexual women and I just "get" each other
Exactly, like my 'lifeline' I felt when I said I was bi to another bi woman, I just cued off her bi energy and that sparked my own bi energy into its own inferno.

Anyway, I'd love to chat how you and your partner make a bi romance work. Sounds like your inner selves are very happy and satisfied to find equal partners.

Thanks for the reply! I'm truly happy to know I'm not the only one who feels like I do.
 
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My ideal scenario would be the third for a bi guy and his bi gf, so yeah I do like bi women.
I would love to try this one day but I imagine the logistics of it could be complicated lol. I've had experiences separately but would love a bi 3 some one day. Definitely on my bucket list (for the record I've never had any type of threesome as of yet)
 

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Why not kiss another guy? You'd be surprised on how good it can feel sometimes.
One of my best perks of being bi is enjoying kissing guys especially ones with 5 o'clock shadows or facial hair. Love that scruffy feel. It's a nice contrast to kissing women's smooth faces.
 

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I would love to try this one day but I imagine the logistics of it could be complicated lol. I've had experiences separately but would love a bi 3 some one day. Definitely on my bucket list (for the record I've never had any type of threesome as of yet)
I wasn't thinking only about threesomes but maybe something that lasts a bit longer.
 

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I'm Bi and ONLY am interested in Bi women for sex, friendships and relationships. I have no time for straight women in my life at all.
Get some shit when I say this but straight women are so incredibly difficult to deal with sometimes or maybe the ones I attract.
 

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Get some shit when I say this but straight women are so incredibly difficult to deal with sometimes or maybe the ones I attract.
No not just you. If I'm dealing with a straight woman (which is 97% of the time) I don't bother to disclose I am bi. Vast majority of the time they are super ignorant about it and sometimes refuse to fuck altogether. Hahaha
 
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No not just you. If I'm dealing with a straight woman (which is 97% of the time) I don't bother to disclose I am bi. Vast majority of the time they are super ignorant about it and sometimes refuse to fuck altogether. Hahaha
I had one bully once cause I wasn't interested in her, lol.