GO FOR IT. My older man was the naughtiest, most experienced, most open to new things I've ever had. He was 21 years older than me and young-looking for his age, but oh the nasty games we played... getting spanked and pounded from behind under my schoolgirl skirt while bent over a chair back has never felt as incredible as it did with him. If he wants to take you out and he knows how old you are already, it's probably not a big deal to him. I agree with you - greying guys are hot as hell!
Definite DILF here, although the grey is predominantly in the Van Dyke. Only just starting to scattershot grey a little on top.
Cliched though it is, I'm a big fan of the older experienced man (professor, mentor, father figure) / young girl (schoolgirl, daughter figure) sexual dynamic. I know exactly what you're talking about with the scenario you describe above. I've had two relationships like that; one with a 23 year difference, the other with a 19 year difference. Both had a primarily BDSM component, but mixed in as well was the older man/young girl play aspect. I particularly liked when one evening my girl surprised me when I came to pick her up by coming out of her building in full-on Catholic schoolgirl garb; plaid pleated skirt, button-down white shirt, white knee socks, Mary Janes, and sporting a pair of pigtails. As I recall, she pulled my hand under her skirt at the restaurant to show me she wasn't wearing any underwear, and later in the car gave me a rocking blowjob.
We later went on a vacation together and stayed at a B&B where we fully played up the father/daughter role in public, but certainly must have raised the eyebrows of anyone who heard us at night.
Seems she liked the older version I guess.
