Any disadvantages to a big cock?

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Wow...such a question!

When I was in High School, I was still naive enough to think that women found no difference between large and small. Men, to my knowledge, didn't...so why would women?

To me, it was always a huge curse. I wasn't completely aware of how radically different we were in size from one guy to the next. So to me, a high-schooler in an age of tight-fitting jeans, it was just demeaning and humiliating that I always had to hide my ever-present hard-ons behind a notebook or what-have-you, while all the other guys just sauntered about all day in their equally tight jeans without showing squat.

I'm being honest here, because you're all as kind as friends and as anonymous as strangers. But yeah, I felt like the "Lone Perv", running around hard-cocked while everyone else was 'normal'. It was really humiliating.

Now, I realize that my penis was simply big enough to "display" in no uncertain terms while hard. And furthermore, even while flaccid, it was big enough to get shmushed into an erection by those tight-ass jeans against its own will...ha ha. So little wonder that I was always hard, wearing shit that left no room for me and veritably masturbated me in denim, while other guys were able to saunter around with penises that barely felt the jeans against them.

I felt like a freak, and I wish my parents were open enough to address the situation...maybe even explain it to me such degrees that they were able to talk me into looser-fitting jeans. My mom was too prudish to think of such things, and my dad was too uninvolved to address them.

And so I suffered needlessly in a situation that I might have otherwise relished.
 
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OK there is one..sad but true I hang around six inches soft it sucks when one is sitting on the toilet and your head gets wet....you asked....
 

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The only other even possible downside is sitting on a toilet on those little airplane toilets. If I lean forward, even soft my dick is long enough that it sometimes touches the metal bowl, which is gross.

But believe me, the advantages of having a big dick are overwhelming.

That sums up the answer right there. Agree totally.
 

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I guess for me the biggest disadvantage was with my last girlfriend - we just broke up last month.

Sex was a burden. It was very hard to penetrate and she had to be super worked up to take me. She refused lube (God knows why, she always prided herself on how wet she got). She liked me to rub my head against her clit until she could finally be worked up enough to take me inside - which was a very slow, inch by inch process.

Anyway, by the time I finally got half way in - and I do mean only half way in - I was ready to cum. So needless to say we were totally out of sync.

It was always terrible and ultimately very sad and one of the major reasons we broke up.
 
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I usually won't enter her until she comes first from eating.

That is a great idea. I would always try that with my ex girlfriend but when she was getting close she'd beg me to penetrate her... which still took forever so the end effect was she would loose her peak of excitement and I felt like I was starting all over again.:frown2:


A funny story: somehow my old gf got into a texting thing with my new gf who I hadn't slept with yet. The old gf told the new one that though I was terrible in bed I was "very well endowed". I am terrible in bed because I can't fit inside her and though I try everything possible - reading books, talking to her about the problem, etc. etc. etc.. I am the one terrible in bed.

So I guess being "very well endowed" was for me in that case a double edged sword... though the new gf did do it with me the very night after the texting incident. I think she was very curious to see it.
 
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When I hear big guys talk about the problems of having a huge dick I am reminded of mega wealthy folks who talk about the burdens they must carry for being rich. Sorry - no sympathy from this corner.
 

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When I hear big guys talk about the problems of having a huge dick I am reminded of mega wealthy folks who talk about the burdens they must carry for being rich. Sorry - no sympathy from this corner.

It's not the same thing as being rich. Genital incompatibility is a real problem that causes a lot of problems with sex. It's nothing to envy.

More isn't always better. Trust me on this.
 
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I don't know,If some one was rich... financial incompatibility could be a real problem. It could definitely break up two people.

More money, more problems...I'm kinda seeing a similarity :)
 

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I have never had a woman dislike my big cock. I have accidently injured a partner being too big and too aggressive, but the soreness went away quickly and they wanted it again as soon as they could get back on it.
Having a big cock is good. I would hope that having a small cock is good too. Hopefully we all do what we can to live a good life and make the most of what we have.
 

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I don't know,If some one was rich... financial incompatibility could be a real problem. It could definitely break up two people.

More money, more problems...I'm kinda seeing a similarity :)

No, it would be the same if rich people were homeless because they had too much money.
 

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The thickness can be a pain

:: nods :: Yes, it can. Recently had sex with a guy that is 9" by 6" and as we were fucking i think he got even more erect than usual. Between the stretching and the friction, i was out of commission for a whole week afterwards. Caused some bleeding the next day and painful stinging during urination from the ripping. it's all good now though. :)