Any disadvantages to a big cock?

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i have a problem with my wife, she cant take it all without it hurting badly and has become a massive problem, underwear issues not as bad as long as they arent too tight. I only have a flacid pic at the mo but i will update with a full sized hard pic as soon as i can and see if other guys have same problem with a similar size.
 

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When I hear big guys talk about the problems of having a huge dick I am reminded of mega wealthy folks who talk about the burdens they must carry for being rich. Sorry - no sympathy from this corner.
OF course having a fair amount of money its not very good if you are not ready in how to deal with it, thats why many lottery winners lose it all in the end, if i won a ton of money, i would worry that someone would try to kidnap any of my family members
 
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I agree with Miss Petite, that it isn't the blessing that being rich might be. I'm only fairly big, but I've been with guys who were huge, one of whom had a cockhead so big I could barely get it in my mouth. Now I'm a great cocksucker (I've had reviews!) but I couldn't give this guy a particularly good blowjob or use any of my usual tricks. Fortunately he was a bottom (weird how random that is...) as there was no way I was letting that inside me!

I'm joking about it now, but it occurs to me that that guy probably never gets a particularly good blowjob off anyone, and if he was a top he'd find a lot of guys wouldn't bottom for him, and I'm sure many women would feel the same way. And I hate to say it, lovely gorgeous guys on this site, but the difficulty with his cock might have been a contributory factor in me not making any special effort to see him again.

Now if I'd been in love with him I'm sure we could have found a way to make it work, but in those early days its easy to make a decision based on a trivial difficulty that more established couples can work out (like living in different cities, or having different incomes). So I have sympathy with anyone who says there's a downside to having a big, visually appealing dangler to show off in the shower!
 

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I have never had a woman dislike my big cock. I have accidently injured a partner being too big and too aggressive, but the soreness went away quickly and they wanted it again as soon as they could get back on it.
Having a big cock is good. I would hope that having a small cock is good too. Hopefully we all do what we can to live a good life and make the most of what we have.

no, having a small cock is NOT good, but one has to play the cards one is given.
 

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no, having a small cock is NOT good, but one has to play the cards one is given.

It would depend on how small.....I've been successful with some fellows in the 4 inch range. If they have confidence and know what they are doing things can happen....also I don't risk choking if they want to start a face-fucking session.:smile:

I used to be in swapping and swinging with 1 of my exes (it was the feel good free love of 1979-1982) and she wasn't able to deal with the really oversize men. She could handle a good size, even a larger than average but every so often there was a monster size that was too big in length and which in girth she would manage but complained to me later that it hadn't felt all that good. (we had 2 neighbors who would soothe her back to happiness)

To each their own I guess and as you said, play with what you get.
 

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Been turned down for the girth before, bout the only one I can think of.


OH, the looks when you get that not at all hard, but kinda chubby bloat in shorts and the bounce is noticable.
 

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It all depends on the life experience you have and who you meet during that time. I have known more than one man and a few from this board who would not consider this to always be an asset.

There are always trade-offs in life and this is one of them.

Girth is often more difficult to deal with than length because good love making techniques can compensate on that one.

There is such a thing as genital incompatibility. This applies to both straight and gay relationships. If a gay man is in to anal penetration he may have problems finding a partner simply because an anal canal that is easily able to take a very large girth is about as rare as the large penis looking to find it. Back when I was active in this manner years before my life-partner, I encountered a fellow in Southern California who had an anal canal resembling the Holland Tunnel. The only difference was that the one in New York had Fluorescent Lighting. In my lifetime in my straight exploits early on I did find several females that could not take me. I am just above average in length, but I am definitely above average in girth when fully erect.

There is a relative that refers to a personal check to his grandchildren as a "universal money order in a one fits all size".

As we go to either side of the bell curve the number of people able to deal with the size of a penis begin to fall off. On the small side the problem is enough penetration for satisfaction and on the large side the problem can be either too much penetration to where the erect head of the penis presses into the cervix OR that the girth is such that the vaginal barrel is not accepting.

My experience was in females that I tended to date divorcees who had given birth to several children. Child birth tends to stretch out the vaginal barrel and guys of larger girth can have more fun. Distance to the cervix is just as variable as the distance from the base to the tip of the shaft with some women being more shallow than others. Technique is the key on that condition and the guy needs to adapt to the idea of more shallow strokes.

It is not easy and as things start to go below 4" in length and 5" in girth problems take place and the same is true as the length goes over 9" and the girth over 6.5". As one gets over 7" girth on full erection the problem rate becomes far higher.

It all comes down to experience and who or whom you meet.....
 

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It is not easy and as things start to go below 4" in length and 5" in girth problems take place and the same is true as the length goes over 9" and the girth over 6.5". As one gets over 7" girth on full erection the problem rate becomes far higher.

It all comes down to experience and who or whom you meet.....

Average girth is 4.75 so why would under 5 be a problem ?
 

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Don't get me wrong, I love my cock and it's been 8.5"x7.5" since I was about 13-14. Usually guys I've been with comment on the fact that it's the biggest that they've ever been with which is obviously an ego-boost but having been sexually active with guys for 8 years it's a bit annoying when I can't top very often.

It's usually been a barrier in relationships where I've had to bottom the whole time - which is amazing in itself, but still not my complete preference. I've now got to the point where I worry about new relationships where the guy is eager to take it but then we fail because even just the head hurts them and they get so nervous and anxious about taking it.

Other downsides are definitely the toilet one already mentioned - touching the side of the bowl when you sit down (does this happen to smaller guys also??) and getting scratched by teeth when being blown which is a massive turn off.

As much as I moan though, I still wouldn't trade it :p
 

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I only had one gf that couldn't take me at first. I have had problems finding jeans with enough "room" down there unless I want to wear some baggy, unfashionable, crappy looking jeans. have had my balls get in the way when I'm working. have a couple male friends that are jealous.

but no way would I want to be smaller. my wife told me that no matter what size I was she was in love me, and after we made love the first time, (she told me this later), she was shocked. but after being married 11 yrs, she told me she was glad I was big. she said I was hard to handle sometimes but she loved that "stuffed" feeling and being sexually satisfied when so many of her gfs were not.
 

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I don't wish I was smaller but there are certainly disadvantages.

Dick hangs in toilet water
Too big for pussy/mouth/ass
Hard to find clothes with enough crotch space.
Scare girls/guys away
Can't fuck for a long time or at the speed/pressure you desire, because partner is in pain.
I'm sure there's more I'm just feeling too lazy to list more.
 

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It has much more to do with compatibility. Penis size matters as much if not less than vaginal depth/tightness and threshold of pain/pleasure of your partner. There have been times where I would rather have a much smaller cock, while others where I am glad to have a bigger one. On the whole, in my experience, I am having to control and be aware to avoid hurting my partner, much more than I'd like. It is only with rare partners that I can go full gas without any worries, being assured it is always pleasurable for my partner, and that is an experience I miss most of the time.
 

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Any disadvantages to a big cock?

Having a big cock doesn't stop you from having a broken heart or prevent you from getting dumped.


Having a big cock doesn't keep you from losing friends.


Having a big cock won't keep your family together.


Having a big cock won't keep you alive when you are sick or injured.


Having a big cock won't get you respect.

Having a big cock won't keep your relationship strong and make it endure hardships.

Having a big cock won't stop anyone from cheating on you.