Any dude craving just male affection

[alex-xx]

Instead of what?!

Instead of with bigbull29 since he's not in the UK unfortunately.

 

[deleted994557]

Instead of with bigbull29 since he's not in the UK unfortunately.

Sure thing. Big spoon or little spoon?

 

[alex-xx]

Sure thing. Big spoon or little spoon?

I prefer little spoon but I can enjoy big spoon too.
What about you?

 

[deleted994557]

I prefer little spoon but I can enjoy big spoon too.
What about you?

Perfect. Big spoon here

 

[Dave NoCal]

I am gay and married to a man but still don't get as much male affection as I want. I enjoy giving and receiving non-sexual massage. I love to cuddle and love it when a guy squeezes my shoulder or puts his arm around my shoulders. My father and I were never close but I grew up in Mexico where men are, or were, more tactile.

 

[fullpak]

Totally on board with this bigbull. Had a distant father and few males friends but crave that connection to another male. Just to be able to hug, slap each other on the back, massage shoulders when tired or anxious.....even cuddle when together....not necessarily in a sexual way, but certainly charged. Just the semplance of tight interpersonal connection. Thought I was alone in this craving.

 

[cufflinks]

I think this is a cultural thing.

I have lived in ten countries and visited 40 more, and it is my impression that there is a wide range of male affection out there. And it depends on where you are how much of it you are getting.

The most affectionate countries among men, in my opinion, are:

• Paraguay
• Argentina
• Mexico
• Spain
• Israel
• Iraq
• Turkey
• Japan
• Korea
• China

And the least affectionate, where you are basically expected to act like an icicle with a testosterone problem, are:

• New Zealand
• Australia
• USA
• Russia
• France
• Germany
• Scotland

Two-phase places are ( = you start off cold, and then things get teary-eyed eventually):

• Finland
• Sweden
• Ireland
• England and Wales

Just my impressions...

 

[buttfuckbro]

over half of my fuck buds are straight, so theres usually not a lot of affectionate stuff when I'm getting fucked lol
im def a hugger though and all my friends, gay, straight, male female whatever get hugs from me.
I feel like humans require love and deserve to be hugged and loved as much as possible.

there was a time I idolized sexy dudes and this left me feeling inadequate
then I started thinking that rather than idolize people, I should instead work to
embrace and become those things that I idolized in others, which led to more self love

hugs from California brother!

 

[hunglondoner7]

Would love to cuddle with you Alex in Brighton or Liam in London. Or both lol.

 

[622675]

I am so craving male affection. I had a great dad growing up. I just want to hug and kiss another dude that I am friends with.

Please answer seriously without insults.

Any other buddies on LPSG like this? It's not really the sex I'm really craving with dudes.

Right now, I would just like to hold a buddy and kiss him.

During my second year of college Guido and his roommate lived next door in an old dorm with no A/C. Every room opened onto a hallway which led to the central shower / restroom area or the building exit.

We all lived with our doors open most of the time to facilitate ventilation. There were about 10 of us on the hall who regularly ate, showered and traveled together.

Guido (nick name) was bright, happy, great looking, and friendly as a puppy. From all I ever knew he was totally hetero and had a regular girl friend the two years we had together. My very hetero roommate and I sort of adopted him.

When the mood struck, he would either sit with me on my bed, which faced the TV or assume some more relaxed reclined position. At times we would argue and poke fun at each other, but nothing negative ever came of it.

My roommate and I started rubbing his fuzzy stomach when we needed to get his attention and before long our whole dorm group took up the gesture. It was considered to be good luck before a test.

If he came in late from a date and didn’t want to hear about it from his loud roommate, he would just crawl in bed with me and go to sleep. He never missed a chance to give me a hug when he climbed in bed and would make his wolf-wolf (puppy sound).

And if I awoke to find him in bed I might reach over and rub his fuzzy belly and be greeted with a muffled wolf-wolf. At times we were fully clothed. Other times we wore nothing at all, but it didn’t matter since we weren’t going there. If you touched his balls or if he humped your butt cheeks in bed, it didn’t matter. Somehow we were just bonded, and we could share anything. We could talk about sex all day, touch any body parts, but being sexual just wasn’t in the cards.

One Saturday morning he got up with a raging boner and spent the next 30 minutes demonstrating to both my roommate and me how his technique for satisfying his girlfriend worked. It took four pillows to provide enough crevices to bury his very ample endowment.

You just never knew what Guido was going to do, but you always knew that you were invited and that you would always be accepted without condition.

I don’t know how to explain how Guido and I connected. I am one for being able to explain how things work, but I would have no idea how to create this kind of connection with another person.

Somehow he just radiated empathy and wasn’t shy about sharing it in a hug, or a tug, a rub, or in anything tactical to get your attention. Or even when he would creep up behind you and blow a hot wet breathe on your ear, and then give you a hug.

Hugs from Levi

 

[BIGBULL29]

During my second year of college Guido and his roommate lived next door in an old dorm with no A/C. Every room opened onto a hallway which led to the central shower / restroom area or the building exit.

We all lived with our doors open most of the time to facilitate ventilation. There were about 10 of us on the hall who regularly ate, showered and traveled together.

Guido (nick name) was bright, happy, great looking, and friendly as a puppy. From all I ever knew he was totally hetero and had a regular girl friend the two years we had together. My very hetero roommate and I sort of adopted him.

When the mood struck, he would either sit with me on my bed, which faced the TV or assume some more relaxed reclined position. At times we would argue and poke fun at each other, but nothing negative ever came of it.

My roommate and I started rubbing his fuzzy stomach when we needed to get his attention and before long our whole dorm group took up the gesture. It was considered to be good luck before a test.

If he came in late from a date and didn’t want to hear about it from his loud roommate, he would just crawl in bed with me and go to sleep. He never missed a chance to give me a hug when he climbed in bed and would make his wolf-wolf (puppy sound).

And if I awoke to find him in bed I might reach over and rub his fuzzy belly and be greeted with a muffled wolf-wolf. At times we were fully clothed. Other times we wore nothing at all, but it didn’t matter since we weren’t going there. If you touched his balls or if he humped your butt cheeks in bed, it didn’t matter. Somehow we were just bonded, and we could share anything. We could talk about sex all day, touch any body parts, but being sexual just wasn’t in the cards.

One Saturday morning he got up with a raging boner and spent the next 30 minutes demonstrating to both my roommate and me how his technique for satisfying his girlfriend worked. It took four pillows to provide enough crevices to bury his very ample endowment.

You just never knew what Guido was going to do, but you always knew that you were invited and that you would always be accepted without condition.

I don’t know how to explain how Guido and I connected. I am one for being able to explain how things work, but I would have no idea how to create this kind of connection with another person.

Somehow he just radiated empathy and wasn’t shy about sharing it in a hug, or a tug, a rub, or in anything tactical to get your attention. Or even when he would creep up behind you and blow a hot wet breathe on your ear, and then give you a hug.

Hugs from Levi

Yep....great post/read! So true... I so get what you're getting to here.

I knew a dude at university who liked to show his dick off to all the other boys; but somehow it was more a "sexually-charged" male bonding act than purely "fuck me" sexual. He would have never let you suck his dick or anything like that. He'd whip it out, however, so you could pretend to be doing so (as a joke). He'd do a measuring contest with any dude who thought he had a bigger peter. And, yes, he'd probably would have had no problem with tag-teaming a girl, or a little "friendly fire" with his closest buddies (he was very promiscuous and heavy into porn). But he was never going to engage in real gay sex. He only played with pussy.

 

[Nate2020]

When I attended college I had a very good friend who I hung out with frequently. I had a double bed in my apartment so if we had been drinking or had a group of friends over he would crash at my place and sleep in my bed along side of me, as did a number of guy friends. We both slept in underwear but shirtless. Nothing sexual it was just sleep. He and I were straight. We happened to work together too and my place was close to work so he would sometimes come over have a beer and we would hang.
One night after too much to drink we climbed into bed and were just laying there talking and I said "you have the hairiest chest of anyone I know". He chuckled. I said "can I touch it". He said "of course". I rolled on my side and put my hand on his hairy pecs and rubbed. He just smiled. His chest felt so masculine. We went to sleep. After that whenever he wanted to sleep over it was always the same. I got close to him and rubbed his chest while we talked. It was never more than that. We would talk about school, work our girl friends. It didn't matter. It seemed natural. A great bonding experience.

 

[1037772]

I miss this kind of bonding.

 

[chrisrobin]

I am so craving male affection. I had a great dad growing up. I just want to hug and kiss another dude that I am friends with.

Please answer seriously without insults.

Any other buddies on LPSG like this? It's not really the sex I'm really craving with dudes.

Right now, I would just like to hold a buddy and kiss him.

You might be hung like a bull and proud as a peacock but we cant offer buddy time, hugs and kisses unless we know where you reside...

 

[chrisrobin]

This thread reminded me of this scene from Friends:

They were the ultimate gay lovers who didn't know it. Well think they did but they never knew it at the same time. What a lovely couple indeed.

 

[chrisrobin]

Instead of with bigbull29 since he's not in the UK unfortunately.

always available for hugs and cuddles - and in the UK!

 

[DckHntr_09]

I'm definitely craving some male affection

 

[EagleCowboy]

I am so craving male affection. I had a great dad growing up. I just want to hug and kiss another dude that I am friends with.

Please answer seriously without insults.

Any other buddies on LPSG like this? It's not really the sex I'm really craving with dudes.

Right now, I would just like to hold a buddy and kiss him.

That would be me! Bring it on!

 

[Lucius2s1]

Awesome thread. I too want this.

 

[Blether17]

You can't beat a cuddle, so intimate, so reassuring and doesn't have to be sexual.

Virtual hug winging its way to you BB29.

I am so craving male affection. I had a great dad growing up. I just want to hug and kiss another dude that I am friends with.

Please answer seriously without insults.

Any other buddies on LPSG like this? It's not really the sex I'm really craving with dudes.

Right now, I would just like to hold a buddy and kiss him.