any else notice the homophobia on this site from the str8's?????

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obviouusly this site is homoerotic since it's all about big dick. but i have notice some of the str8's are not as open minded as they present themselves being on a site like this. i have asked harmless questions for the str8 guys in the past and some just were offended or grossed out. i really thought this site would be a platform where the gays and str8s could interact in a "neutral zone". what do you guys think?
 

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I think that's an over-simplification, joeburger. Yes, there are a number of straight (and gay) guys on here who are uptight. Just like in the real world. But I suspect the overwhelming majority are pretty open.
 

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I asked a gay friend, would you fuck that sexy chick across the street? And he said "fucckk ewww yuck".

What is that? Heterophobia? How come no one bothers with it? IMO homophobia and discrimination will only matter so long as people are overtly sensitive to these matters e.g. reacting violent or whatever. If people can just shrug it off with an "I dont care-look" then these things will be meaningless. No point in teasing someone "fat" who knows he or she is fat and has accepted that she or he is in fact fact because that wouldnt be insulting to the person.

Edit: and besides, theyre straight, why would one even bother with them?
 
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I haven't had any issues with the straight guys on this site, one of the main reasons why I like it! A range of people on here, haven't came across anything like that though =/
 

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I haven't had any issues with the straight guys on this site, one of the main reasons why I like it! A range of people on here, haven't came across anything like that though =/

I agree with ibottom818. Straight guys have been totally cool with me. I also gauge my comments based on how str-8 or gay people's percentages are. If someone is 100% straight I don't say things like "I wanna fuck you or suck you". Conversely if someone is 100% gay like my friend ibottom818, I will post more forward comments like "you are so freaking cute and your ass is legendary, please sit on my face."
 
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if people do respond like that (although i have never experienced it) it may be because they are struggling with their sexuality. after all, why else would men hang out at a site dedicated to large penises?
 

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The large majority of guys and gals on here have been accepting and open, as long as the gy person has been accepting and open as well. Discrimination and hating works two ways, in any category. There was a period where there was an excessive amount of bashing that went on that went unchecked by the moderators, since that technically didn't violate the TOS. That was the time I stopped participating near as much, and took a long break. It settled down again, as it always does, but I never felt quite as accepted and willing to participate as much after that. Once burned, twice shy I guess.
 

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Usually the only time I see straight guys get nasty is when they're asked the same, tired "would you ever?" question every which way, over and over. C'mon gay boys, wouldn't you like a nice, juicy pussy? I'm sure you would, if you were horny enough, drunk enough or it was a really, really SPECIAL pussy.
 

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I suspect you're being facetious, Alex, but the answer is yes, I'd love to stick my dick in a nice juicy pussy. And it would be easier if I was horny and drunk. I'm just not attracted to women. But, wait. Was that a rhetorical question? I got distracted thinking about pussy.
 

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Ok here is my take. . you are correct in feeling that this place should be a neutral forum for all orientation groups. However, We cannot help the fact that some people are small minded bigoted, and exclusionary toward others. If a person is a Jerk. . then I would say. . it doesn't matter how big their dick is . . because their personality will always be a bigger, "dick" than their own genitals. That kind of person doesn't really need to procreate anyway. . so. . rest assured that the Str8 boys who are jerks will wind up in loveless sexless marrriages and we will probably see them again at a bookstore, or a sauna. . because as we know, . . as gay men. . that is where all the str8 and married guys go to get laid, when they are not getting any at home.
 

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I started here because I was curious about my feelings. I put myself down as 99% straight but have singed changed it a little. I have had a few really good conversations with really good people both straight and gay and they made me feel really good about myself. Can't say enough about the good people here so don't let a few bad apples change anything for you. Keep the friendships and great conversations going!
 

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I've only had issues with one straight guy on here. I guess he had too much T running through his veins because he has a ridiculously jacked body and I think it was chest day. :)

Joking aside, I think a lot of the problem comes from "cultural" differences. Lines get crossed unintentionally...what joking with a gay guy would laugh at and move on, maybe the straight guy took it the wrong way.

Or, he could be struggling with his sexuality (reiterating an earlier post). I've been on the receiving end of hostility in my life from a str8 guy that may have had a "gay" thought or I approached him wrong..I honestly don't know because we were cool for so long and he never said why he got mad.

The actual point is, some people are uptight...that's independent of their sexual orientation. I'm an extravert, so I'll talk to anyone when I hang out. This isn't always welcomed, so when I get a poor response, I leave that person alone. I don't know why they had the response, but it's kind of unfair to project something on them that we don't really know.
 

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Usually, those type of individuals are extremely insecure with their own sexuality. I just shake my head at them and tell them to fuck off. It's not worth my time to engage in interactions with fools (especially when I'm not getting paid to do so).
 

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obviouusly this site is homoerotic since it's all about big dick. but i have notice some of the str8's are not as open minded as they present themselves being on a site like this. i have asked harmless questions for the str8 guys in the past and some just were offended or grossed out. i really thought this site would be a platform where the gays and str8s could interact in a "neutral zone". what do you guys think?

Where? I didn't see any unkind person who was homophobe, so where did you read something that incite homophobia?
 
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I'm more curious as to the questions the OP asked the straights to get such a negative response.

Instead of rushing to condemn the straights, why don't we find out what the OP said, how he said it, if he was annoyingly persistent, wouldn't take no for an answer,etc...

On this thread there seems to be a rush to judgement, against the straights, with no evidence from the OP except his word.

Give me some clear examples, that haven't been edited, along with the screen names of said individuals and let me form my opinion then.

Sklar
 
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