Any gay guys not turned on by flaccid dick?

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Title is very straight forward. I am not attracted to flaccid penises. In fact I would say they actively a turn off for me. I rarely ever suck a guy who hasn't gotten erect first.

Anyone else like this? I don't see the appeal of soft dick at all. (I do like balls loose or taut though)
 
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Title is very straight forward. I am not attracted to flaccid penises. In fact I would say they actively a turn off for me. I rarely ever suck a guy who hasn't gotten erect first.

Anyone else like this? I don't see the appeal of soft dick at all. (I do like balls loose or taut though)
Does it make a difference if they are cut or intact? I love flaccid dicks but only if they are cut. (I’m sure I’ll hear lots from that!)
 
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I love flaccid cock. About 20 years or so ago I was seeing a lad. He was a good looking chav lad, but he was a bit insecure. Whenever we hooked up he would always get himself hard before taking his cock out. He had a gorgeous uncut, but I always wanted it flaccid as for me I find it a turn on having the guy flaccid & sucking him & getting him hard, it gives me reassurance that he's getting turned on & liking what I'm doing. After a while of doing things together the guy started to relax & I'd always get to see his flaccid dick.
 

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Does it make a difference if they are cut or intact? I love flaccid dicks but only if they are cut. (I’m sure I’ll hear lots from that!)
No difference to me. I fine the whole debate silly personally. Lol. I think it's fine for some people to have a preference. I personally don't. Most dicks I've encountered were uncut (in the Caribbean this is the norm) but I got with cut guys whne I loved in Texas and there was no notable difference to me.
 

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I love flaccid cock. About 20 years or so ago I was seeing a lad. He was a good looking chav lad, but he was a bit insecure. Whenever we hooked up he would always get himself hard before taking his cock out. He had a gorgeous uncut, but I always wanted it flaccid as for me I find it a turn on having the guy flaccid & sucking him & getting him hard, it gives me reassurance that he's getting turned on & liking what I'm doing. After a while of doing things together the guy started to relax & I'd always get to see his flaccid dick.
I get that logic. I think for me I rather a guy get hard from our foreplay or kissing before the pants even come off.

In the event he needs some more encouragement, I will typically suck his balls to get the dick erect. I will simply not suck a flaccid dick. Lol.
 
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I get that logic. I think for me I rather a guy get hard from our foreplay or kissing before the pants even come off.

In the event he needs some more encouragement, I will typically suck his balls to get the dick erect. I will simply not suck a flaccid dick. Lol.
Yea, I get turned on quickly with guys & tend to get hard quickly. Knowing you're getting a guy hard & wanting your sex is always hot.
 
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Its funny I was having a conversation with this guy im banging lately, about how nice a man looks -to me- when not hard.... I have zero sexual interest in dicks, it's not a turn on for me. But I find the image of a soft dick very, very beautiful, in a way that this part completes the overall shape of the male body in a unique way. So the direct reply to your qstn is kinda "no"..... (I hope u accept no for an answer, and understand the fun part like how different can we all be)..... Maybe u think it's weird to hear such a comment, but , what's normal with me anyway.....
 
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Its funny I was having a conversation with this guy im banging lately, about how nice a man looks -to me- when not hard.... I have zero sexual interest in dicks, it's not a turn on for me. But I find the image of a soft dick very, very beautiful, in a way that this part completes the overall shape of the male body in a unique way. So the direct reply to your qstn is kinda "no"..... (I hope u accept no for an answer, and understand the fun part like how different can we all be)..... Maybe u think it's weird to hear such a comment, but , what's normal with me anyway.....
I'm very open to different viewpoints (especially in this case since I'm the clear outlier/exception to the rule :joy: )

But I totally understand your perspective. I can see how it could be "beautiful" to others. Like any thing in this world I suppose. That's valid. Just doesn't turn me on and I actually find that quite weird about myself
 

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I love flaccid cock. About 20 years or so ago I was seeing a lad. He was a good looking chav lad, but he was a bit insecure. Whenever we hooked up he would always get himself hard before taking his cock out. He had a gorgeous uncut, but I always wanted it flaccid as for me I find it a turn on having the guy flaccid & sucking him & getting him hard, it gives me reassurance that he's getting turned on & liking what I'm doing. After a while of doing things together the guy started to relax & I'd always get to see his flaccid dick.
My sentiments exactly. I love the unroused look of a flaccid dick, the potential it conveys. I love both the idea and the sensation of having a man's center of pleasure growing in my mouth, by my actions and my presence. To my eyes -and mind- at least, a flaccid dick denoting its presence commando behind sweatpants is very sexy, whereas an erect dick tenting those same sweatpants is almost comical.
 

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I had a buddy who would love to take me in his mouth fully flaccid, I am pretty tiny soft and he was about 6 thick inches soft. He would get me hard and suck me off and didn't release me until I fully flaccid again and totally cleaned up. He would never ask for anything in return, said he got so much pleasure from making me hard and cumming
 

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Being soft doesn't turn me on, but if I have reached the point where I am anywhere near a Penis, it is because I am already turned on by some other aspect of them or thought, so it doesn't matter