There's a very,very few of us out there. Never understood the attraction of penetrative sex, and nor do I find arseholes attractive at all. I find it a complete turn off. Oral sex is of no interest either.
Unfortunately, the stereotype of all gay men being into anal sex isn't going to go away any time soon. There seems to be this pressure that one has to have anal sex...or it isn't really having sex otherwise. I've heard about instances when a guy has sex for the first time and expects that it has to be anal, even though he doesn't actually like it. In fact, I recall one gay activist saying that unless you had anal sex you weren't really gay. And this is why I have nothing to do with the so called gay 'community'. And it's why gay guys call me 'boring'.