When I first started having sex with guys, the idea of getting fucked terrified me. As I was young, cute with a great arse I got asked a lot and said no a lot. Then I started seeing this guy who convinced me to try it once, he took his time and worked it in gently, and from that moment I was hooked. I had fucked him for the first time a few days before and didn't like it, I found I didn't get much sensation and with a condom on I had to bang away like a machine just to keep my erection.
I enjoy being fucked immensely, but it's not a prerequisite for me. My partner is a good match, being a complete top, he really loves to fuck but has never been fucked, never will and doesn't so much like a finger in his arse. However, we don't fuck every time we have sex, or even most times we have sex. He loves having his cocked sucked, I love sucking it, so that is a common thing for us to do. I enjoy being jerked off and he does it well. If I feel I'm clean, if I'm in the mood, then I'll move it on to anal, but it's not that often. It's just part of the repertoire so to speak.