When I used to post on craigslist for camming, I always said whoever wanted to watch had to either have a cam, or let me hear their voice before I would consent. It weeded out a lot of fakers and I actually did find some real women, and had a couple of real hook ups too. Plus hearing a voice while they watched was a extra turn on. but jesus h did I waste of lot of time getting there lol, and tried my patience.
I find chatrooms stressful and hate camming in there. Too much chatter and hard to focus on one person. There was a "girls watching guys" room on aff and it was fun at 1st but just too overwhelming.
Fun when it works out, but frustrating as hell when it doesn't